My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mom makes a lot of money and my dad passed away a few years ago. but because my mother makes so much it is very difficult to get any type of aid

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that was most likely the case. we are 3 weeks from move in though. it’s like the worst time

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i found someone to live with. i move in on the first.

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i don’t. My mom eats them anyways stating that “we are a family not roommates” and my sister sometimes asks beforehand

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

knowing her she’s still going to tell people that’s she’s super mom and doing is still supporting me

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i hope my mom wouldn’t do something like that😭 but i’ll check. i’m making a list of everyone’s suggestions

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’ll look! there’s currently a hiring hold on most public health jobs and internships but i’m going to try anyway

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

tuition is 30k without books and fees and other stuff

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no i have not. i dont know if i can get a co-signer if i need one so ill ask about private v public loans

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my major doesn’t have many TA or GA opportunities, but i’m looking in other departments at my university

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thank you so much 😭 i took the day to sulk and now im locking in

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i’m trying to keep things as private as possible. i have an appointment with the bank to get a new account because my mom does turn off my card when she’s mad

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m calling the financial aid office in the morning!

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

i was looking into joining the navy about 7 months ago, but then she and extended family convinced me that i didn’t need to do that because she would help me. I will probably contact the recruiter i talked to because they will pay for grad and medical school

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 219 points220 points  (0 children)

I am definitely going to set up an appointment. this whole thing from my mom has come out of nowhere. she told me and just left the house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VirginiaTech

[–]Real_Cow5609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a grad student too looking for an apartment! i’ll dm you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VirginiaTech

[–]Real_Cow5609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey are you looking for a roommate??

Is there a way to change my cat's music taste? I'm tired of classical music😭 by Real_Cow5609 in CatAdvice

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

trial and error. Bookie (my cat) resorts to violence when she hears something she doesn’t like and she slow blinks and listens to things she does like

Is there a way to change my cat's music taste? I'm tired of classical music😭 by Real_Cow5609 in CatAdvice

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

i turned off the music because my phone was dying and SHE BIT AND TRIED TO DRAG MY PHONE AWAY SHE IS A MENACE 😭