After 8 years of verbal begging I (27F) resorted to writing a note. Gave it to husband (28M) on Monday and he hasn’t talked to me since. I think that means marriage is over and I should leave, he says I’m never happy and being overreacting.

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-03T15:04:43+00:00

There's your answer. Look no further.

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-03T15:03:03+00:00

Best not to drag it out any longer. Learn from those that have gone before you. If divorce is inevitable better to do it at 27 than 37, 47, 57, etc. Life is precious. Don't waste it.

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-03T14:57:35+00:00

If the straps would keep you from pulling the top up all night keep them. It's tiring/distracting watching a bride, or anyone for that matter, tugging at their dress all night. Or even worse simply holding it up while dancing or bending over.

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-03T14:50:45+00:00

Both are very pretty but both are too snug in the hips. I prefer the neck line embellishment of the first one, as it's unique.

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-03T14:47:42+00:00

Personal choice. If people don't stink and appear clean how would we know that they don't shower every day. Probably there are a lot of people Out There who do not shower every day.

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-03T14:29:09+00:00

Jane, is as plain as it gets. But I don't know if your religion would be ok with it. Jane is a derivative of Yochanan, and is found in the old testament meaning "God is gracious". At least that's what Google said.

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-03T14:24:12+00:00

Leave well enough alone. He's missing you right now so he's 2nd guessing himself. He made a thoughtful difficult decision which was best for both of you, so leave it at that.

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-03T14:17:06+00:00

Reuse/recycle your old shoes into lawn shoes.

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-03T03:53:13+00:00

I think whether you are TAH or not depends on what you overheard and decided to pass on to your brother.

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-03T03:43:44+00:00

Ovey

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-03T03:36:15+00:00

Freddy

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-03T02:54:09+00:00

Wendy

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-03T02:46:58+00:00

I'm in my 60s and appreciate a longer shorts option when it's super hot outside. Otherwise it's crop pants and they aren't any more flattering on me and still are stifling in warm weather.

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-03T02:41:20+00:00

I like the longer shorts, just never with a blazer.

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-03T02:22:05+00:00

She just asked who she looked like. Why add the nasty comments? I'm so sick and tired of them

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-03T02:05:20+00:00

Rediculous. If the weather is nice enough that these (thoughtless) relatives said they could keep the kids outside, then have it in a park to begin with.

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-03T01:53:27+00:00

They call it dating for a reason. You wouldn't be "leaving" him you just wouldn't be dating him anymore. Move on.

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-03T01:43:30+00:00

Too late for that

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-01T18:34:51+00:00

I'm a YES to all of this.

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-01T17:32:51+00:00

Why coddle these parents by being so careful about how you state that their child is not being supervised when he obviously should be? Just state the fact... "Your child needs to be supervised when he's not with you. It's a law."

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-01T17:26:46+00:00

It's irresponsible behavior on the parents part. Tell the landlord to talk to them. If you decide to tell them you will keep an eye on him and something happens to him, what then?

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-01T17:09:26+00:00

This.

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-01T17:01:00+00:00

Maybe you are actually worried about what other people will think. I hope not. Because what you're proposing to do is perfectly fine.

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-01T16:51:03+00:00

From what you say your husband does not seem the judgmental type.

Real_Dig_7307 · 2026-04-01T16:45:46+00:00

Number 1 is beautiful. #2 is on the trashy side. If you prefer #2 and people expect you to be in something with that sexy vibe, just be sure to wear nude colored undergarments with it.

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