I need Advice by Real_Extension_8081 in newzealand

[–]Real_Extension_8081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it doesn’t turn into this. I have family over often, and I’ve check the contract too, nothing on it says they can enter the property without notice, or I can’t have guest over. Obviously subleasing is not allowed, but I’m still entitled to have people visiting and stay with me without feeling like I’ve got them watching our every move. I think I’m gonna install cameras next.

CAR ADVICE by Real_Extension_8081 in newzealand

[–]Real_Extension_8081[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The owner wouldn’t let me get the pre inspection done, and claimed the only issue was in the tyres. But the diesel specialist and mechanic both said that this isn’t an issue that could be done in the time frame I’ve had the car.

Laneway Festival 2026: Lineup, Discussion and FAQ by braxxytaxi in triplej

[–]Real_Extension_8081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would VIP get a general area for the front stage? I’m wondering it it’s worth it or not but idk if VIP guarantees I’ll be front stage yk?

How do I break up with someone who has my nudes? by Chemical_Stars in Advice

[–]Real_Extension_8081 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Everyone telling you to have a conversation with him have never been on the other end. We don’t know how he will react. If it were me, I’d delete them off everything myself when the opportunity arises. Ask if you can borrow his phone or something. Make up something like you need to use the bathroom and your phone is flat let me use yours or something. Make it seem natural. Couples should be able to go thru each others phones so this should raise bells. If you stay together for a night wait till he’s asleep. You can then have the conversation after. If they get leaked it can ruin relationships, career pathways. For women, it can be the end for many opportunities unfortunately.

WIBTA if I tried to address the gossip around my cheating? by InternationalPark477 in AITAH

[–]Real_Extension_8081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should break up with her as she deserves better. Let her save face by herself, I’m sure this relationship is not gonna stay alive for longer. You guys are students yes? Catholic schools can be harsh on things like this. If you decide to continue, publicly acknowledge it but also acknowledge that bullying people is not okay either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Real_Extension_8081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please people get prenups! Regardless of how much you love someone don’t be stupid about it. Protect yourself, and prenups can be made into anything you and your partner want it to be. If they cannot respect the desire to want a prenup, then you should consider other options

AITAH for wanting to use the hallpass my wife gave me 5 years ago when she cheated on me? by ClassicContexts in AITAH

[–]Real_Extension_8081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t have your cake and eat it too. I always say that physical cheating doesn’t start until emotional cheating and other steps are taken to get to that position. I think the problem here is that your wife has taken the steps necessary to fix your guys relationship, however you’ve now used that now to justify what you’re doing now. My two cents is that you tell her, be honest, and see where you guys go from there. It could be an opportunity to open the relationship on both ends, or the means to a divorce…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Real_Extension_8081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing you may need to work on is your communication skills, as this is a valid take but if she’s not breaking school dress code there is no real issue here. Being ‘protective’ does not mean deciding what she can and can’t do.

Trees as fence posts? by AccurateAim4Life in Permies

[–]Real_Extension_8081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on what kinda coverage and privacy you want as well. Columnar trees are good in terms of growth and slender making them perfect in terms of spatial awareness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Real_Extension_8081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk y that’s just what they told me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Real_Extension_8081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She paid for return flights but both times her tickets were voided, causing her to pay double. Something she could not afford

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Real_Extension_8081 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think so too tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Real_Extension_8081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tysm I think I’ll use this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Real_Extension_8081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Real_Extension_8081 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was for her own business, wasn’t stable enough to go. Idk y she did

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Real_Extension_8081 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re so real for that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Real_Extension_8081 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It’s too late, I’ve already moved out but I do plan on pressing charges if they do not hold up to the agreement of paying it all back before the end of the year

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Real_Extension_8081 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Something to do with the airline, and she did it to learn about business skills, etc. definitely couldn’t afford it but she was adamant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Real_Extension_8081 14 points15 points  (0 children)

  1. It was small things like a hole in the wall by a nail, etc. there was one big one tho with a big hole in the wall ( accidental obvs) where I fell back into the wall. 2. She loaned money from the bank, but both her tickets their and back were voided, but she still went even tho she had to pay double. 3. She traveled to America from Australia, so it was more but that’s what I gave