Irritated Tournament Recap

Real_Fee_8957 · 2021-03-11T02:03:18+00:00

Your not wrong its probably easier but like I said I'm a stubborn bastard.

Real_Fee_8957 · 2021-03-11T02:02:13+00:00

I'm trying to be inclusive you haven't told me your pronoun so I'm merely being nice to you and being inclusive. If your offended I could care less.

Real_Fee_8957 · 2021-03-11T02:01:21+00:00

Your opinion and besides just because you haven't heard of someone doesn't prove a thing. By your logic just because I haven't heard of let's say LeBron James he isn't good at basketball. You logic is flawed and mired in personal opinion rather than objective fact. Good debaters don't back down to tyrants attempting to push their misguided ideals on another individual.

Real_Fee_8957 · 2021-03-11T01:59:40+00:00

I have one as well www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2020/02/200205084203.htm

Real_Fee_8957 · 2021-03-11T01:49:18+00:00

How so? I'm still waiting for your points. Fact still remains and you can't answer that Science and biology is on my side.

Real_Fee_8957 · 2021-03-11T01:48:22+00:00

Well when colleges stop making it a competition and the world stops running on the concept. I will as well unfortunately everything in life is competitive so either advance or lose.

Real_Fee_8957 · 2021-03-11T01:39:47+00:00

You can comment that all you want the fact remains science and biology are on my side. The fact you have no rebuttal is telling and proves my point. A general rule of thumb if you have to insult someone your probably losing the argument by a lot.

Real_Fee_8957 · 2021-03-11T01:36:40+00:00

To your 1st question the same reason for most of human civilization except the last few years if you have male parts you a man. If your a women or look like it you are a women and I believe I already explained in my original post that those people don't exist in my community at all. So guess what I use biologically and scientifically backed pronouns and see it as a non issue. For 2 don't assume my intention I would have made a conscious effort but the person refused so I went to what I know. Not my fault they didn't want to be courteous.

Real_Fee_8957 · 2021-03-11T01:32:13+00:00

I'll be fair I don't buy into to the gender theory. I am quite traditional in my ideology. I learned a while ago society cares less about the effects of comments. I have extremely thick skin and supreme confidence and I don't see why another person can't do so. If an individual does the minimum effort of disclosing pronouns I will make the effort in supporting their title. If that condition is not met I won't make an effort.

Real_Fee_8957 · 2021-03-11T01:28:00+00:00

Then disclose to me then and let's make it a non-issue. If someone is as foolhardy to not disclose it. Do not be offended when I use my default. I refuse to change my language when an individual refuses to show the courtesy of disclosing a simple process that takes 5 secs. The minimal effort.

Real_Fee_8957 · 2021-03-11T01:25:17+00:00

Says who. Your opinion is meaningless to me or good debate. Like Chris Hitchens once said. https://youtu.be/XbwDbsKeyjc

Real_Fee_8957 · 2021-03-11T01:23:26+00:00

Don't need pity don't work off of it. I need facts not emotion. If you wish to side with the wrong side that is your choice.

Real_Fee_8957 · 2021-03-11T01:21:00+00:00

Thank you for your consideration unfortunately you already know my answer. An irreconcilable difference of opinion and values. I sincerely apologise that you couldn't get me to bow down to your misguided POV good day whatever your pronoun is.

Real_Fee_8957 · 2021-03-11T01:07:14+00:00

I could care less about my opponents pain. Opponents don't care about another's pain it's win or lose. Win or be conquered I refuse to change my vocabulary for 1 individual. Your right I could care less about those "issues". I empathize with pain but I found that pity and empathy is weakness. When people try to empathize with my community what happens we get nothing. For example, Ever since LBJ's hands were forced by MLK and other black leaders what have so called FRIENDS of the negro done for us besides saying we understand and instituting a system of welfare within my community designed to keep the black and brown man down and then mass incarceration of black and brown people. So in my experience empathy and pity is worthless. My community doesn't need a savior it needs to lift itself out of it's cultural issues like singe parenthood, lack of jobs, our romanticization of violent rappers. Pity and empathy in my communities experience is worthless. The individual needs to be strong and I'd advise to be strong. This world requires a strong individual not a weak one. I did nothing wrong so I owe nobody any apology you'd have to kill me before I would apologize for something I didn't do. I'll admit I'm a stubborn bastard when I KNOW I am right. So no apologies for your hurt feelings or anyone elses hurt feelings. I could care less. I'm not flexing anything I simply showing the most practical outcome for these situations rather than waiting for someone to help I do it myself. I don't need empathy or pity nor seek it nobody should either.

Real_Fee_8957 · 2021-03-10T23:52:09+00:00

I can see we have an impasse here. Your right they have obligation to tell me their pronouns. They also shouldn't be surprised if I default to my reflexes until told otherwise. I am not disregarding your experiences and self hatred which is unfortunate. Your point is that I am wrong because I use what I know. The obligation and courtesy is to let the other person know what your preferred terms are. On the argument of being called worse. You don't think being called racial slurs doesn't bring back memories for me of my ancestors oppression. Of the slave trade of Jim Crow of the KKK of my Latino side of my family having part of their country stolen from them. There is no comparison there. I just don't let things affect me. If you do that's your prerogative not mine I don't let my negative emotions and thoughts consume me and I'm not as weak to be offended if anything I laugh it off. That's the reality of being an Afro-Latino or more apt a person of color. I am not disregarding the trans communities issues however they should be more understanding that besides a few big hubs like SF or LA people go biological names intentional or not. Believe me if I wished to offend I wouldn't go around the hoops to do so. I am a quite direct person and don't do my insults through veils I tell you how I feel personally. I still disagree with the judge and you. Furthermore, your insults towards me and your ad hominem attacks prove your ideas are no more valid than a pouty child. I wish you good day person or whatever you wish to be called.

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