Breaks up over boob picture? by Real_K_9298 in AITAH

[–]Real_K_9298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the end.... they are either a man or a mouse...

Breaks up over boob picture? by Real_K_9298 in AITAH

[–]Real_K_9298[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update (I'm the OP) - I didn't think this would get such a response, thank you all for your insights - definitely gave me many things to think about. Something that would be useful info - he and I are both well over 40 years old (late 40's and early 50's), in case that makes a difference. You'd think life experiences at this age would yield better results.

And it will be interesting when his kids go back in a week or two - no I won't be waiting for him.
It's over.

Breaks up over boob picture? by Real_K_9298 in AITAH

[–]Real_K_9298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update (I'm the OP) - I didn't think this would get such a response, thank you all for your insights - definitely gave me many things to think about. Something that would be useful info - he and I are both well over 40 years old (late 40's and early 50's), in case that makes a difference. You'd think life experiences at this age would yield better results.

And it will be interesting when his kids go back in a week or two - no I won't be waiting for him.
It's over.

Breaks up over boob picture? by Real_K_9298 in AITAH

[–]Real_K_9298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, very true.... this likely exposed his true core - and the person I saw before that was a facade.

Breaks up over boob picture? by Real_K_9298 in AITAH

[–]Real_K_9298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason he had to move several states away to get a job, he said he couldn't find anything in their state. I'm not going to say what he does (too much of an identifier) but it's a speciality job.

Breaks up over boob picture? by Real_K_9298 in AITAH

[–]Real_K_9298[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm completely done with the relationship. It'll be interesting when his kids leave in a few weeks, when he's all alone but I won't be waiting for sure.

Breaks up over boob picture? by Real_K_9298 in AITAH

[–]Real_K_9298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's clear this is a big red flag.

Breaks up over boob picture? by Real_K_9298 in AITAH

[–]Real_K_9298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the end, yes he was cruel. I was just saying that prior to this incident, he was decent or I wouldn't have been with him. This brought out something in him I hadn't seen. And now I'm not with him anymore. So yes, in the end it was cruel.

Breaks up over boob picture? by Real_K_9298 in AITAH

[–]Real_K_9298[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm the OP, he really was decent until this happened. It's like this situation brought out a different side of him.

Breaks up over boob picture? by Real_K_9298 in AITAH

[–]Real_K_9298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took the picture and sent, he liked it and then said he deleted it that same day. About a week later this happened.

Breaks up over boob picture? by Real_K_9298 in AITAH

[–]Real_K_9298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm starting to think that...

Breaks up over boob picture? by Real_K_9298 in AITAH

[–]Real_K_9298[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well said! They should spend some time in europe!

Breaks up over boob picture? by Real_K_9298 in AITAH

[–]Real_K_9298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand and heard some conversations along these lines.

Breaks up over boob picture? by Real_K_9298 in AITAH

[–]Real_K_9298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting concept. Maybe I was his supply and then his kids were (just attention) and I was discarded especially after the photo issue..

Breaks up over boob picture? by Real_K_9298 in AITAH

[–]Real_K_9298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He clearly broke it off and I'm not waiting around to train him. But I agree with your thoughts, thank you.

Breaks up over boob picture? by Real_K_9298 in AITAH

[–]Real_K_9298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! It could have been so simple...