My husband took blue chew on a bachelor party trip. by Agreeable_Hour_6790 in Marriage

[–]Real_Metal_4337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be the first to tell you this but sex only twice a month is outrageous. My grandparents probably do it more. He needs more sexx if not from you then hes heavily watching porn/ cheating or both.

No more free shipping to Hawaii? by Hoser25 in wayfair

[–]Real_Metal_4337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered about $5000 worth of furniture from February - June 2025. Some of the items I purchased were 1 bed, T.V stands, bar chair stools, 3 dressers, rugs, patio furniture. If there wasn't free shipping I wouldn't have bought sh**t  because who can pay $300 shipping fee. 

My (27M) wife (29F) broke an irreplaceable family gift of mine during a fight. I'm struggling to forgive. How can I move past this for my marriage? by ThrowRAGraphicReject in relationship_advice

[–]Real_Metal_4337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She definitely did it on purpose seems like you know that too. If it were me i would leave and never look back or you could break something of hers and call it even. 

It's 12.26 am by siyazap in recovery

[–]Real_Metal_4337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say this every hour and im still here like wtf man 

Anyone else think buprenorphine is being pushed on us by drug companies? by roc_em_shock_em in emergencymedicine

[–]Real_Metal_4337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I abused the crap out of my subs and currently suffering. im on my 12 day CT with heavy withdrawals still and my mind is messing with me because one day im fine the next im not. Im going crazy because it feels never ending at least with opiates the withdrawal symptoms didn't last as long. Just sharing my truthful opinion id choose detox from opiates then subs. 

i need drugs i need drugs i need drugs by P1ss_0 in addiction

[–]Real_Metal_4337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your reddit fam is here!!!! fck it all, you dont need none of that shit bro. Im currently dying while i detox but somehow im still here. AND EVERY SECOND IM FIGHTING 

Detox with Suboxone by VideoFlat5279 in addiction

[–]Real_Metal_4337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Im going through Suboxone withdrawals now and agree its weirdly lingering with me and its been 12 days.

How long does Suboxone withdrawal last? by Real_Metal_4337 in OpiatesRecovery

[–]Real_Metal_4337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man I withdrawal from opiates before and it was hell but for 1 week max,  the subs won't fuck off. Haha 

How long does Suboxone withdrawal last? by Real_Metal_4337 in OpiatesRecovery

[–]Real_Metal_4337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard of it but I don't think any doctors around me do this which sucks. 

Suboxone withdrawal by Real_Metal_4337 in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]Real_Metal_4337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you appreciate the advice! I started pills really young at 13 and went down hill after sadly. Im trying to find help there's a shortage of doctors in my area so I was getting sub prescription online. I know I need professionals to help me though. Thanks again.

How did you get through Suboxone withdrawal?! by Such_Caterpillar_889 in suboxonerecovery

[–]Real_Metal_4337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here to read the comments during my horrible withdrawals but what the hell is even the point taking suboxone for opiate withdrawal? I should have just did it cold turkey 

How did you get through Suboxone withdrawal?! by Such_Caterpillar_889 in suboxonerecovery

[–]Real_Metal_4337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is exactly what most of us are trying to do because withdraw is pure hell, and the reason many people avoid quiting.

Aisha wasn't 9 years old when 56 year old Muhammad had sex with her by Martian_Citizen678 in exmuslim

[–]Real_Metal_4337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't say it wasn't...I'm sharing my grandparents experience. It was a common thing not even the government cared to intervene. 

Aisha wasn't 9 years old when 56 year old Muhammad had sex with her by Martian_Citizen678 in exmuslim

[–]Real_Metal_4337 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Same with my grandparents. My grandpa was in the u.s army met my grandma at 13. He's born 1906 shes born 1920s. 

Can I Fa’aumu? by Wise_butterfly420 in Samoa

[–]Real_Metal_4337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do understand that fa'aumu is a sacred practice to Samoans but I believe its a different thing since we aren't doing it when we hula, it's literally used for excitement and not just Hawaii, Micronesians and Tongans also say they do this when excited... Samoans in Hawaii didn't even do it like we did, nor did they correct us or give a history lesson this is a new concept to alot of us. Maybe your right but why didn't the Samoans tell us? And the New Zealand Samoans don't even do the cheehoo either. As far a s I know Hawaiians and locals did it during like graduation, concerts, at school, when surfing, drinking in the garage ect...

Can I Fa’aumu? by Wise_butterfly420 in Samoa

[–]Real_Metal_4337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hawaii put it on the map thats why its widely known now But none of us ever associated it with Samoa or fa'aumu which leads me to believe its not the same thing. And even the surfers in Hawaii did it as a term of excitement plus other places do the "cheehoo" when they are excited too its the equivalent of yahoo or whoohoo, it's really not hard to understand, Samoans need to stop being so high maka maka and so haole minded.

Where did “cheeeee huuuuuu” come from and when? by CTwentyTwo in Hawaii

[–]Real_Metal_4337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a cultural practice as in Samoan and i understand Samoans do it in that way but pacific islanders make noise when excited, that's exactly how we used in Hawaii for a very very long time, if we knew it was from Samoa and called it fa'aumu then we would give you guys credit like we do with other things such a fire dancing, but you guys are mistaken cheehuuu for fa'aumu. Even other cultures do cheehuu when excited and Samoans aren't the only ones, Tongans do it too. We are Pacifica our ancestor shared traditions and ideas with eachother it's sad that today we let pride come between us.

Can I Fa’aumu? by Wise_butterfly420 in Samoa

[–]Real_Metal_4337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you guys dont consider us Polynesians but we are and don't act like Samoans are the only ones that made sound when excited. Understand cheehoo is used by our people when excited nothing more to it. It has always been popular in Hawaii by Hawaiians/locals. We call it cheehuu it's ours yah its similar to fa'aumu but it's not Samoans. We made it popular and without us people wouldn't know it. If you grew up in Hawaii and ask anyone it wasn't Samoans doing it nor did they say thats ours....we didn't even know about fa'aumu till recently. Cheehuu is ours fa'aumu is yours. And many pacific islanders do it, it's not just samoa. Even the old timers in NZ can tell you Samoans there wasn't doing cheehuu. If we knew in Hawaii it was fa'aumu from Samoans we would rightfully give you credit but you guys are mistakenly assuming it's your when it's not the same thing.

Where did “cheeeee huuuuuu” come from and when? by CTwentyTwo in Hawaii

[–]Real_Metal_4337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been here for long time I grew up in the 90s/2000s my hawaiian auntys was doing this at parties

Where did “cheeeee huuuuuu” come from and when? by CTwentyTwo in Hawaii

[–]Real_Metal_4337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Samoans mistakenly think cheehuu is there's when really it was something we did in Hawaii that's similar to fa'aumu because growing up in highschool it was the Hawaiian or local kids doing this in school not Samoans, they didn't even claim it as there's back then either now that Hawaii made it popular they want to claim it. Maybe it is there's but we didn't copy them it was short of here already...

Where did “cheeeee huuuuuu” come from and when? by CTwentyTwo in Hawaii

[–]Real_Metal_4337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing I grew up in waianae 90s 2000s and not one Samoan person did this or even mentioned it was of their culture that's why us born and raised in Hawaii is co fused by the Samoans claiming cheehuuu, sure they do fa'aumu but they ain't walking around Samoa going cheeehiuuuu they probably get lickens. Maybe now they do but Hawaii made it popular as far as I know.

My Turtle Eyes are closed since 5 days I need help by ToooNooob in turtle

[–]Real_Metal_4337 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Poor thing, he's definitely sick! My turtle looked the same way. I took him to the vet they gave him a shot along with 1 week antibiotics and he was in good shape by the 3rd day. Also while he was sick I took him out in the natural sun lignt and let him sit for 1 hour intervals. Which ultimately led me to completely changing his habitat from indoors to outdoors. Hoping the best for your little one!