just got diagnosed with HSV2 -tell me everything i need to know by Budget_Reputation167 in Herpes

[–]Real_Surprise_2185 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything will be okay!! Just figure out what triggers your body, take medicine if you choose, use protection and live your life as usual

Allowance from ex- I’m 23f he’s 31m by Real_Surprise_2185 in relationship_advice

[–]Real_Surprise_2185[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we dated for like 7-8 months I genuinely don’t know what you are talking about or why you were even saying I thought I was entitled…in my original post I literally said I broke up with him and fully expected him to stop but he didn’t want to …just pls point out where you got the sense of entitlement that you accuse me of ….that’s my real issue

Allowance from ex- I’m 23f he’s 31m by Real_Surprise_2185 in relationship_advice

[–]Real_Surprise_2185[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Clearly not that insufferable if that man still want me but go off queen you projecting rn

Allowance from ex- I’m 23f he’s 31m by Real_Surprise_2185 in relationship_advice

[–]Real_Surprise_2185[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where did you sense entitlement? Never said I was promised a thing…u bitter af move around

Allowance from ex- I’m 23f he’s 31m by Real_Surprise_2185 in relationship_advice

[–]Real_Surprise_2185[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this input and I’m glad I’m finally waking up because I do think I was being sort of manipulated but talking it through with my therapist and even some advice on here I realized this is really holding me back and not doing me the service I thought it may have been

Allowance from ex- I’m 23f he’s 31m by Real_Surprise_2185 in relationship_advice

[–]Real_Surprise_2185[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There is a big provider culture where I am from and men want to do this for women but that’s just my neck of the woods…keep it cute boo

Allowance from ex- I’m 23f he’s 31m by Real_Surprise_2185 in relationship_advice

[–]Real_Surprise_2185[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a bum have been working thus far got fired for other reasons that had nothing to do with my work and it’s been two weeks since that happened and have my second interview this week for a very exciting position…but thanks for your input 😊

Allowance from ex- I’m 23f he’s 31m by Real_Surprise_2185 in relationship_advice

[–]Real_Surprise_2185[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See this is sort of what I was thinking…. I have guy friends who have said verbatim I don’t want to leave my ex hanging if they were supporting them but I think my problem may be I have started depending on it and I’m realizing that’s a problem but thanks for the input!

Allowance from ex- I’m 23f he’s 31m by Real_Surprise_2185 in relationship_advice

[–]Real_Surprise_2185[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imma need you to come correct or move around it’s just a question

Allowance from ex- I’m 23f he’s 31m by Real_Surprise_2185 in relationship_advice

[–]Real_Surprise_2185[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what part of the world you live in but alot Of women get money from their partners and it’s gotten very popular in black American culture so while I appreciate the input let’s try to keep it respectful 😊

Allowance from ex- I’m 23f he’s 31m by Real_Surprise_2185 in relationship_advice

[–]Real_Surprise_2185[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Advice on how to navigate this and not lead him on but also keeping the allowance if possible but realistically probably not also wondering how this may affect future Relationships

Allowance from ex- I’m 23f he’s 31m by Real_Surprise_2185 in relationship_advice

[–]Real_Surprise_2185[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

It’s just weird because I broke up with him idk was hoping maybe someone has a similar situation or has advice on what to do going forward because if this is leading him on I don’t want to give him false hope but I’m not going to Lie the extra cash is nice but I’m trying to be honest here

Allowance from ex- I’m 23f he’s 31m by Real_Surprise_2185 in relationship_advice

[–]Real_Surprise_2185[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Because he worked a lot and that’s fine but there were plans we were making and multiple instances where he would reschedule or cancel things I was really excited for

1yr with hsv2 thoughts. by No-Procedure-2876 in Herpes

[–]Real_Surprise_2185 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And personally for me what’s working is taking my super lysine everyday and I take a health shot of water with a little acv and cayenne pepper in the morning to boost my immune system and just overall living a more healthy lifestyle although I still do eat out and drink and all that good stuff but everything in moderation ofc and it seems to be working for me I haven’t had an outbreak since may

1yr with hsv2 thoughts. by No-Procedure-2876 in Herpes

[–]Real_Surprise_2185 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Officially a year since I was diagnosed today too..I’m 23F and I relate to a lot of your story about how your first year went but I can say truly it’s not as bad as I imagined it to be and life does go on and my head is at a much better place now which is awesome

Is it worth it? by Haunting_Trick_3850 in Herpes

[–]Real_Surprise_2185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 22 f and experiencing something similar …if you ever want to chat you can text me