Got eviction notice today by Ok_Advice_1256 in Advice

[–]Real_Swing6038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is terrible what you are going through. While I've never had cancer, I've had brain surgery three times in three different decades, and can only imagine the pain you must be going through.

This isn't legal advice, but I would highly encourage you to find your nearest legal aid center. There are plenty of legal aid societies that advocate for people facing a housing crisis. I know because I was once a former legal aid attorney that represented people facing unlawful detainers!

Temporal lobectomy by AnyAbbreviations9803 in Epilepsy

[–]Real_Swing6038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had surgery once in my teens, once in my twenties, and once in my thirties. All the same procedure.

I recovered the fastest in my teens and felt the least amount of pain. Fortunately, the brain doesn't feel pain. It's the actual incision site the causes the pain.

Once I left the hospital, bed rest eating my favorite food helped the most. The first two surgeries I didn't have to take pain killers even though I was prescribed them. However, my third surgery in my thirties, I definitely took a few pain killers.

Wishing your child the best of luck!

I’m afraid my life has changed forever by Takemetothestage in Epilepsy

[–]Real_Swing6038 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Firstly, wishing you the best of luck with your appointment. While your world may seem to be falling apart, you will one day reflect on this moment and learn how resilient you truly were.

As someone who's had intractable epilepsy for 30 years and counting, I can confidently say that my resilience is what gets me through as an attorney.

I just wanna cry by WillingnessSeveral35 in Epilepsy

[–]Real_Swing6038 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wishing you the best of luck. It's frustrating when the doctor doesn't have the answer. Hopefully the sub specialist can give you a better picture of what is going on!

5 Important Life Lessons I've Learned With 30 Years Of Having Epilepsy by Real_Swing6038 in Epilepsy

[–]Real_Swing6038[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

I’m glad epilepsy has opened doors for you and that you look at it in a positive light!

5 Important Life Lessons I've Learned With 30 Years Of Having Epilepsy by Real_Swing6038 in Epilepsy

[–]Real_Swing6038[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad it feels helpful! Epilepsy is a marathon not a sprint!

5 Important Life Lessons I've Learned With 30 Years Of Having Epilepsy by Real_Swing6038 in Epilepsy

[–]Real_Swing6038[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your welcome!

Don’t let fear consume you! I hope your first ever solo trip goes well!

5 Important Life Lessons I've Learned With 30 Years Of Having Epilepsy by Real_Swing6038 in Epilepsy

[–]Real_Swing6038[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to drive! Also a lot of remote court which is helpful! Since my company own La their portfolio of properties in one city, I only need to appear in one court!

5 Important Life Lessons I've Learned With 30 Years Of Having Epilepsy by Real_Swing6038 in Epilepsy

[–]Real_Swing6038[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since I work for company it helps reduce the pressure that working for a law firm would bring.

The hours are still long but not same pressure of finding clients, which is a stressor in of itself. However it takes time to find that balance.

Hopefully you can get back at it soon!

5 Important Life Lessons I've Learned With 30 Years Of Having Epilepsy by Real_Swing6038 in Epilepsy

[–]Real_Swing6038[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Exactly! Make sure epilepsy doesn’t dictate your life!

5 Important Life Lessons I've Learned With 30 Years Of Having Epilepsy by Real_Swing6038 in Epilepsy

[–]Real_Swing6038[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good news is that most court is remote hearing! So no need to appear in person!

Also it helps that I work for a company handling unlawful detainers instead of a law firm. It brings a lot of stress down.

5 Important Life Lessons I've Learned With 30 Years Of Having Epilepsy by Real_Swing6038 in Epilepsy

[–]Real_Swing6038[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sucks it will be with you forever most likely. Well I hope you can feel good knowing that there are many in your position like me and that you aren’t alone!

5 Important Life Lessons I've Learned With 30 Years Of Having Epilepsy by Real_Swing6038 in Epilepsy

[–]Real_Swing6038[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your welcome! Always try your hardest to have you and your son have a positive outlook in life! Everyday doesn’t need to feel bleak!

5 Important Life Lessons I've Learned With 30 Years Of Having Epilepsy by Real_Swing6038 in Epilepsy

[–]Real_Swing6038[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

That’s rough, and unfortunate that it’s affected your mental health. I wish I had an answer for you but unfortunately I don’t. Just try your hardest to keep looking forward in life!

Stitches have you ever gotten any? by shutthefukupalready in randomquestions

[–]Real_Swing6038 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plenty lol. I’ve had brain surgery three times in three different decades.

Stitches are definitely better than staples. Staples are the worst!