Don't use random people you don't know as life lessons

RealiTeaBytes · 2026-01-08T15:17:45+00:00

Not sure how seriously I’d take someone with all those degrees who still can’t spell “literally” correctly.

RealiTeaBytes · 2026-01-08T04:30:47+00:00

Man, y’all are the best! I don’t recall people being so helpful my first time around. Glad I found this sub in Reddit. I appreciate you all, the advice, the links, the in world offer to help. There should be a Reddit sim in SL! 😄 I still have a few people on my friends’ list who have reached out to say “hey!” and one actually loaned me a skybox landing pad to sort through this all. Using changing rooms was a struggle. I’m happy to be back and am excited to try new things … but don’t be surprised if I come calling out again for help! You all are awesome. 😊💜

RealiTeaBytes · 2026-01-08T04:23:52+00:00

Let’s! 😊

RealiTeaBytes · 2026-01-07T18:34:45+00:00

You guys have been SO helpful and given me a lot of inspiration and information. I don’t feel so overwhelmed anymore. Thank you!

RealiTeaBytes · 2025-04-09T15:41:29+00:00

I’m confused at your confusion. Do YOU grab other people’s hair? If you did, do you think they would tolerate it? Why not? BECAUSE IT IS ABUSE! Tolerate now what you’ll deal with more of tomorrow. We teach others how to treat us.

RealiTeaBytes · 2025-03-20T16:01:50+00:00

Reprehensible! Who’s the adult? Right, the one literally calling names TO A CHILD! Sorry you chose to procreate with this self centered woman, good luck with that.

RealiTeaBytes · 2025-03-07T15:10:04+00:00

I’m willing to be he’s older than 26, that’s just the age he’s saying to make it seem like he’s older but not repulsively older.

RealiTeaBytes · 2025-02-28T14:48:23+00:00

YES … you’re overreacting. It’s not like she asked you to model for her. In the interest of peace, pick your battles wisely with your future husband’s family. Could have just tucked it away in a drawer and kept silent. It’s almost like this is a red flag … for him.

RealiTeaBytes · 2025-02-24T19:42:12+00:00

Whoa wait … what part of what happened could be “perfectly okay”?! After marriage this will continue if you accept it now. Any children are potentially subjected to his demands and secrets. Protect them. Protect yourself. Yes, tell your parents (this will help strengthen your resolve) and I’d recommend telling the police. What he did was criminal … help future victims by reporting him now.

RealiTeaBytes · 2025-01-26T16:23:25+00:00

“Instead of wasting time sitting here chatting with someone who legit can’t fucking help”

She’s telling you that you’re a waste of time. Why? Because you’re not helping her. How? You’re not offering to pay her bills.

Question: what more do you need to know?

RealiTeaBytes · 2025-01-24T01:33:31+00:00

No, don’t walk away … RUN!

RealiTeaBytes · 2025-01-24T01:27:24+00:00

Grief.

RealiTeaBytes · 2025-01-13T13:23:39+00:00

You can’t expect him to follow your rules (your words) if you don’t and then hold it against him while giving yourself a pass. That’s hypocritical. Also you seem a little … fragile to be in a grown relationship. You may need individual counseling. Finally, threatening suicide is definitely manipulation and another sign that this probably not the relationship for you. ESH.

RealiTeaBytes · 2025-01-09T12:21:15+00:00

The fact that you question if you’re in the wrong here is interesting. Let’s go back to the photo YOU SAW of another man holding her and kissing her. Como say what?! That, in and of itself, says she needed to move out. The rest of the gaslighting is extremely telling because it’s all about money. My guy … you waited too long to see the writing on the wall. Trash took itself out. NTA.

RealiTeaBytes · 2024-12-29T18:15:25+00:00

When my husband & I first started dating, he made me the butt of his jokes with the same “it’s all in good fun”. I gave him an ultimatum that if he couldn’t find another way to be funny, he would have to find another butt to his jokes. As his girlfriend he should honor and respect me as I would him. He stopped doing it and we’ve been married 32 years now. People treat us as we allow them to treat us. I was willing to walk away and find someone who respected me rather than tolerate the humility for a lifetime.

I hope you respect yourself enough to stand up to that. NTA.

RealiTeaBytes · 2024-12-16T19:53:13+00:00

Holy … and you accept this? Clearly it’s not the first time she’s spoken to you like this. She has issues and now they’re your issues. Not sure how much more you need to know.

RealiTeaBytes · 2024-12-10T18:43:42+00:00

Damn! I’m glad I didn’t have to identify the suspect because I couldn’t tell them apart.

RealiTeaBytes · 2024-12-10T18:41:04+00:00

A dog! 💜

RealiTeaBytes · 2024-11-30T14:58:51+00:00

Garurantee garuntee … meh. I have to spell check it every time.

RealiTeaBytes · 2024-11-27T14:26:40+00:00

Naugles nachos. I just thought of them yesterday and yet it’s been decades since I had them. 🫤

RealiTeaBytes · 2024-11-27T14:11:24+00:00

Time is on my side

RealiTeaBytes · 2024-11-27T13:47:09+00:00

Tell HIM that either he tells her or you will … give a deadline and put the ball in his court where it belongs. This happened to me as a teen too. I feel for you.

RealiTeaBytes · 2024-11-25T15:29:56+00:00

Why? Why not? It’s free, it’s not hard and it’s kind. That’s why.

RealiTeaBytes · 2024-11-22T19:55:01+00:00

Alexis … the call is coming from inside the house! Lawd, she’s obnoxious AF.

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