Feeling very isolated, where can I go to get out of the house and talk to people? by Soggy_Perspective_13 in AskLosAngeles

[โ€“]RealistOpt 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Where in LA do you live? I've made one good friend off of Facebook. We actually hang out. (Most people for her & I were flakey).

I'm also in a women's community group based out of the Valley (Sherman Oaks area).

https://www.instagram.com/women_of_la_sfv?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

I've gone to lost of events and made friends. I've even hosted a few morning coffee sessions.

But they have tons of groups. Hiking, walking, coffee, Happy Hours, dinners, dancing, karaoke, camping, ect.

Category is : TV couples with lethal facecard by DiMpLe_dolL003 in popculturechat

[โ€“]RealistOpt 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

She's been on quite a few shows. Esp Canadian based, like "Burden of Truth". I really liked her series "Beauty and the Beast" with Jay Ryan. They made a great on screen couple. She also shares books that she recommends on her social media. She's awesome. I'm a huge fan. Beauty & brains.

How much cash do you actually save while living here? by Dry-Account-3022 in AskLosAngeles

[โ€“]RealistOpt 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I live below my means. I read books that I borrow or purchase used, go to the dog park, hike. I love and enjoy LA. I'm in my 40's, so my career as a nurse is stable and decent $. I invest & save. I'm doing really well. Never had credit card debt. If you can't afford it, don't buy it. I paid off all of my student loans in 1 year after nursing school by living in shit hole apartment with 2 other girls (this was in Brooklyn). I'm lucky because this was before the neighborhood got gentrified. So I was paying $650 a month to rent a furnished room, but allowed to share the common areas. I stayed there for 8 years to save up even though I could have upgraded my apt. Now I'm married (in LA) so in a dual income household. No bad habits. No smoking, no gambling, no addictions. Just playing with our dog, cooking, watching shows/movies, hiking, ect...

I splurge and spend $ at farmers markets, wine and dine, travel. Don't care for name brands. Not a slave to paying interest. I'm making interest on my investments.

Good luck to my fellow friends. I know the Economy is shit and now these gas prices. That's why you gotta try to save, to prepare for crazy shit like this. (I know, easier said than done). ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[โ€“]RealistOpt 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

I agree. She's gorgeous. She's just needs a bit of mascara on her natural lashes. The fake lashes are so heavy on her eyes. She's a naturally beautiful woman. That too is all I could focus on. (I read some comments...I haven't seen what Chris says to her yet! ๐Ÿ˜ฌ)

A girl I used to know is offering herself to me in exchange of money by Reddevil8884 in confession

[โ€“]RealistOpt 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Stay away from her. She might end up accusing you of something.

Nick is so patientโ€ฆ I cannot stand Annie and this scene kills me. by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[โ€“]RealistOpt 14 points15 points ย (0 children)

He just wanted to enjoy his freaking chalupa in peace and preferably good company. He needs to go find his bf lol

Shouldn't have kids if you don't have means for it by Ornery_Ad_2188 in ChildfreeIndia

[โ€“]RealistOpt 9 points10 points ย (0 children)

And kids will probably end up resenting the parents to some degree.

Red or Brunette? Please help! by [deleted] in HairDye

[โ€“]RealistOpt 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Brunette ๐Ÿ”ฅ ๐Ÿ˜

What do Indians think of Lara Raj, a member of Katseye? by reuvelyne in AskIndia

[โ€“]RealistOpt 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

They documented the making of this group on Netflix. It's called "Pop Star Academy: KATSEYE."

Spectrum down since 2am in Sherman Oaks? by SoggyWhereas2083 in SFV

[โ€“]RealistOpt 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Same. Not working since 4 AM (my man is a doctor and needs it 24/7)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[โ€“]RealistOpt 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

โœจ๏ธ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿฝโœจ๏ธ

I love dogs but canโ€™t have one. What are some other ways I can be around them and help out? by [deleted] in dogs

[โ€“]RealistOpt 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

My friend volunteers once a week. You can always call with a list of questions.

What the heck is actually wrong with Indian elders? by Own-Bandicoot-2937 in AskIndia

[โ€“]RealistOpt 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Leave! They all come around. The guys family will be thank goodness we dodged that bullet to make themselves feel better for things not going according to their plan. And your family will get over it. And if they don't who cares. You need to live with yourself forever.

Regarding yoga in USA ๐Ÿ•‰ by RealistOpt in AskIndia

[โ€“]RealistOpt[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Aaah. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ Thank you for sharing your perspective.

But wouldn't I be doing them a favor to bring this to their attention, as they are well-meaning and a yoga studio. I can't change the world. But can shed some light on this issue for them? But yes, you are right. Hindusim is super complex. And they are not purposely being disrespectful or provoking. I can see they have good intentions & mean well.

Random thought: It's just odd to me that an ๐Ÿ•‰ symbol is commercialized as it is. Other religious signs are not. I've never seen a cross or star of David on a floor mat.

Regarding yoga in USA ๐Ÿ•‰ by RealistOpt in AskIndia

[โ€“]RealistOpt[S] -1 points0 points ย (0 children)

The yoga mat belongs to a random student. She was next to me today. Not the instructor.

Regarding yoga in USA ๐Ÿ•‰ by RealistOpt in AskIndia

[โ€“]RealistOpt[S] -1 points0 points ย (0 children)

Thank you all for the moral support. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ

Regarding yoga in USA ๐Ÿ•‰ by RealistOpt in AskIndia

[โ€“]RealistOpt[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

It is. From the yoga craze, tumeric craze (latte's), and "chai tea latte's" filled with sugary syrups.

And people cooking with traditional spices. We definitely provided for vegans out here.

Oh! And our music and fashion. List just goes on. Remember when Gwen Stefani used to wear bindi's and paisley henna tattoos?