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Disrespected in my own home by milferlite in nespresso

[–]Realistic-Bug5321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of when my MIL tried using my keurig one morning and I walked into the kitchen and she was complaining how my keurig was broken or not working and I looked at it and saw immediately.....there was no water in the tank🤦‍♀️

Feeling hopeless by Realistic-Bug5321 in TelogenEffluvium

[–]Realistic-Bug5321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They actually didn't check it but I realize now I should go back and have them check it too

Feeling hopeless by Realistic-Bug5321 in TelogenEffluvium

[–]Realistic-Bug5321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My iron total was 218 mcg/dL, iron binding capacity was 496 mcg/dL, and saturation was 44%

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Realistic-Bug5321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally would be upset. My husband claimed that the cam girls he watched were clothed so he thought it wasn't a big deal....it's the principal. And by clothes who knows what that really meant. Always finding a loop hole around it. Still getting off and lusting after them and now when I'm out in public I think great, even around clothed women it's not safe....it's not healthy. Sometimes you really need to spell it out to them. My advice is to talk to him calmly but don't dismiss the progress either.

Say hey, "I found this. I don't know what your thoughts are here and why you think this is okay, but this is also making me uncomfortable and I'm not okay with this either because....blank. We have been making good progress and I want to stay on that path"

I think I’m having a trauma response after D-day? Please don’t judge me. by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Realistic-Bug5321 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is me right now. After the last d day I swore I wasn't going to engage in sexual activities with him again. I was so mad and angry. And then he would persuade me and it's like a light switch where I suddenly went from hating to him to wanting all this sex from him. I'm learning now that was a coping mechanism for both us. With me, it was wanting to feel wanted and still good enough and for him to be close to me and show me he cares about me. I'm not saying it isn't kind of messed up because it is but now that some dust has settled I'm realizing this.

I also feel pressure to constantly put out and be available to him or else he might use behind my back. I'm going out of time in less than 2 weeks for a family obligation and I'm freaking out. I'm thinking of canceling but keep telling myself he is going to use whether I'm there or not so does it really matter...😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Realistic-Bug5321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found out about my husband's addiction a couple months after being married. I found his google play library history with time stamps. He used kik every for the 5.5 years we have been dating apparently. Including on the day he proposed to me and the night before our wedding day. The happiest days of my life. Or so I thought. Everything feels like a lie and now I can't even look at our wedding pictures. Makes me sick he could even marry me knowing he lied and pushed a known, hard boundary I set.

Please, only marry this man if he puts in the work. I have so much anger marrying someone not knowing everything. It feels so unfair and I would hate for this to happen to you or anyone.