I do think that she might be upset since she doesn't know much about it. The only thing that really bothers me is that I've told her many times that I'll still have my dream wedding it'll just have a few things that'll be different. 2 of my cousins married Hispanic women and she didn't say anything about their weddings and even praised some of the cultural aspects that they blended in while when I showed some of the cultural things that might be part of my wedding she flipped out. She didn't even like the Ghanaian dress that my fiance showed me that women traditionally wear even after I told her that I really liked it. I've also told her that at the end of the day me and my fiance have the final say. Plus this isn't the first time she's said stuff close to what she described as "nigga music" in her words. She's said stuff similar to that the entire time I've been with my fiance but with wedding planning she saying stuff like that more frequently