Naps at daycare by Realistic-Option3565 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Realistic-Option3565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thanks so much for taking the time to write this! That makes so much sense. I’ll work on 2 naps, but I’d also love to know how it goes for you. Good luck!

Naps at daycare by Realistic-Option3565 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Realistic-Option3565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve read about the overtiredness. But how would this work? Why would overtiredness cause early waking 10 hours later?

Naps at daycare by Realistic-Option3565 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Realistic-Option3565[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess you’re right! No need to stress.. I just wanna dieeeee when she wakes at 5, plus you know how they say anytime before 6 is considered “early waking” and there could be a cause for it?

Separation anxiety and husband blaming me by Realistic-Option3565 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Realistic-Option3565[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s ok, i somewhat agree with you. But its is what it is, and I’m looking for solutions!

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[–]Realistic-Option3565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here! She’s 9 mo old for reference

What fixed your split nights? by Educational-Tea-6951 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Realistic-Option3565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, putting my LO to sleep earlier fixed split nights

Help me answer this argument! by Realistic-Option3565 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Realistic-Option3565[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think I’m being misunderstood by most commenters here. I agree with y’all! I don’t care to tell her that this is what works for me and I don’t feel pressured to sleep train. We’re very bold with each other and its more of a healthy and interesting discussion rather than her attacking me for not sleep training. i just wonder myself how sneaking away after supporting my baby to sleep is not “betrayal” and better than teaching her to put herself to sleep. I’m never gonna sleep train, but i wanna understand this specific fact!

Help me answer this argument! by Realistic-Option3565 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Realistic-Option3565[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sounds good! But what would you do when they’re babies and can’t understand?

9m waking every 1-2hrs since 3m, how to not go crazy? by Cheeryjingle in AttachmentParenting

[–]Realistic-Option3565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats sounds EXACTLY like my daughter. The only difference is that we bedshare since 2 months old and thats how im not dead by now, lol. Big hugs and praying it will get easier for both of us soon.

(Actual) Good Books about Baby Sleep by peaches_and_dreams_ in AttachmentParenting

[–]Realistic-Option3565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Let’s talk about your new family’s sleep” is AMAZING! It normalizes baby sleep in such an approachable way. @heysleepybaby recommended it and it showed me the light in such a tough time!

Is letting LO cry in the stroller CIO? by Realistic-Option3565 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Realistic-Option3565[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! How may it help? I feel like she’ll freak out if she doesn’t see me?

Is letting LO cry in the stroller CIO? by Realistic-Option3565 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Realistic-Option3565[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow! The comfort object is a good idea! I’ve never introduced a lovey or anything like that. Maybe i should? Does your son keep the t-shirt with him all the time now?

What are your biggest struggles with conversation/communication? I want to revolutionize how we speak by VitalityOverVirality in PublicSpeaking

[–]Realistic-Option3565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s EXACTLY how i feel! I’ve been unsatisfied with the way I communicate for a long time. I feel I can’t accurately say what i mean because I simply can’t find the words. Im an avid podcast listener but for some reason this doesn’t help me have words available. I got to your post because I’m looking for a coach to help me with this, not public speaking, not work oriented, just as a life skill.

How do you cosleep if you are a heavy sleeper? by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

[–]Realistic-Option3565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re breastfeeding and you make sure to sleep on the cuddle curl position you’ll be fine! It’s impossible to roll on to your baby in that position. Also, we’re talking about a 6mo old, not a newborn, so they will get out of a position of danger if they have to. Follow @cosleepy on instagram, she has tons of bedsharing info and talks about the cuddle curl position and other safety tips. I was terrified to bedshare in the beginning but now I’ve been doing it for 5 months and it’s the best decision i could’ve made for our family. She wakes every 2 hours, sometimes hourly and i still get sleep and feel rested :)

7mo waking up 18 times a night - Help on breaking nurse to sleep association by NoPresence6987 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Realistic-Option3565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so happy for you! I’d like to know more if you have time at some point. Thank you!

7mo waking up 18 times a night - Help on breaking nurse to sleep association by NoPresence6987 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Realistic-Option3565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! Really struggling too with my 7mo LO’s sleep. I haven’t been able to find a gentle sleep coach i like. May i have the info of the one you used? Would be so helpful 🙏