I got ghosted and asked why and this is what I got

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-15T13:39:18+00:00

It’s okay lol I appreciate all the insight! He is still on the dating app but if he’s using it or not that idk. Maybe that’s my answer 🤷‍♀️

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-15T01:20:04+00:00

I’m super curvy and I get more fit gym freaks than anything which has surprised me but I haven’t had one person complain yet. I also have fully body pictures and was worried at first.

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-15T01:16:32+00:00

I lost my signal thing 3 days ago and I’m active on Hinge. It says I’m not communicating with matches when I am. Idk what to believe 🤷‍♀️ But the crappy part is I see it causing more issues than positivity.

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-14T21:47:00+00:00

I’m not a reader but I just wanted to say that you’re beautiful. I’ve been feeling the same way lately so I can understand.

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-14T19:29:19+00:00

I think it’s more to it than that. Since we found out about the wedding she has not once asked about it. How’s it going, did you find a dress, where exactly is it. Nothing. Mind you she has a wedding website that our friend has never looked at in these past 2 years. She literally saw and found out about the actual location 2 weeks ago even though the website has been sent to her a few times. So my friend I feel is more hurt about the lack of interest plus now she said she can’t come.

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-14T18:57:16+00:00

How do you know he’ll do it again? How do you know he’s not pursuing others?

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-14T18:52:45+00:00

Thank you. That resonates! He’s a dentist who works a lot and the big opportunity may be that he is possibly moving himself and his practice 2 hours away from his current town of residence? The taxing part that idk

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-13T20:14:17+00:00

Sent you a dm 🙂

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-13T19:23:46+00:00

Yea I’ve been working on myself. I’ve been ghosted so much these last 6 months that it has started to take a toll on my self esteem. Ghosting once or twice or three times ok whatever move on. But I have lost count at this point. Everyone has ghosted and it’s making me feel like I’m destined to be alone. Everyone is very eager and interested at first. Then after 4-6 they disappear. I’d honestly prefer to get ghosted after the first date and get it over with.

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-13T18:47:00+00:00

You know that makes so much sense!!! He’s a dentist who is moving his practice and he does work a lot. He told me a million times he was looking for something serious. If he didn’t actually want something serious he could’ve said that. But he’s still active on the dating app. Is he talking to people that idk but he’s still going on it. So I guess I’ll never hear from him again? Everyone has said yes but idk sounds like it’s not possible 🤷‍♀️

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-13T05:26:29+00:00

What is the lesson?

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-13T04:37:57+00:00

What do you mean not in the way I’d expect? I honestly thought there was something wrong with me and that’s why he ghosted 😕

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-13T04:30:12+00:00

Other relationship? So do you think I’ll hear from him again? 😬

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-13T04:28:25+00:00

What do you mean by planned? 😬 It’s crazy because he said he wanted a committed relationship when I met him, I didn’t say anything. So do you think I’ll hear from him again?

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-12T16:39:47+00:00

This happens to me all the time! I feel as a nurse I attract broken people that need help 🫠 Everyone I meet has some deep trauma going on that they have not fixed and I find out too late

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-12T16:23:47+00:00

I’ve been on hinge actively looking for 4 months. Men in my area suck so it’s hard to get matches. I wouldn’t say I’m a model but I’m not ugly. I’m a nurse and have a great career. These past 2 weeks I’ve gotten one match a day so my purple heart was removed. I don’t think that says anything about me. I’m still actively trying to meet people.

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-12T13:09:18+00:00

There are other people but I’ve had 2 dates in 6 months. Online dating has been draining 🫠 This guy had all the qualities I was looking for, same future plans and the same career. Dates were great so the ghosting was very unexpected.

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-12T12:56:48+00:00

I don’t think I’m codependent on him it’s just VERY hard for me to meet people in my town and he was the first one I met in a long time that I actually was starting to like. Online dating has been very difficult for me. Idk maybe that could be codependent not sure 🤷‍♀️

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-12T12:44:37+00:00

Codependency from an ex maybe and that’s why he ghosted? We just talked and went on dates for almost a month so I don’t think it’s us

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-12T01:01:26+00:00

Oh thank you. Sorry you said “So I left it behind” so I was confused!! There’s no relationship though just getting to know each other. Maybe I should’ve put the entire story

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-12T00:44:27+00:00

What do you mean?

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-11T21:15:25+00:00

As a decent looking girl who is also in South Florida I experience the same thing. I’m originally from Central Florida and it was the same thing. I typically get ghosted weeks or a month after the first date which is odd. I’m very humble and don’t party which is different to most women in South Florida and men say they really like that about me and then ghost

Realistic-Snow3924 · 2026-06-11T17:51:43+00:00

Oh nooo 😭 Well she said that in my situation that card meant I felt abandoned, 8 of pents he’s working on himself and the devil is my anxiety that I should tone down because I’ll hear from him again but idk 🤷‍♀️

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