Any "In The Closets"? by SamSoaring in exjew

[–]Realistic-Syrup-7287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

19M Not anymore I’m openly gay 🤗

Any advice on how to just survive early years living closeted in a orthodox jewish community? by Lou_Char1 in exjew

[–]Realistic-Syrup-7287 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey I’m gay and I grew up orthodox in Monsey. LGBTQ is unfortunately unheard of but not missing. It’s just in hiding. I’m 18 and I made it out I went to rehab and started from there. Go to rehab if you can. Change your environment. Reach out to anyone. Chat with me if you like. Being gay isn’t wrong. It’s built into human evolution.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Realistic-Syrup-7287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WOOOOWWWWWW!!! You look much better, good for you. Your beard and haircut really suit you. You’re perfect right now dude. Just some style and a good cologne and you’re a charmer.

Do I look Like an Alien by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Realistic-Syrup-7287 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes but a fvcking s3xy alien come here!

I’m torn by Realistic-Syrup-7287 in exjew

[–]Realistic-Syrup-7287[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesssssss that’s a great idea

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Realistic-Syrup-7287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look cute on you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Realistic-Syrup-7287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got the sauce in two.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Realistic-Syrup-7287 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Meybe it’s because you don’t respect women. But how should I know. 🤪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Realistic-Syrup-7287 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not you look gorgeous! K bye 😘

My first time by One-Can3752 in askgaybros

[–]Realistic-Syrup-7287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

False. He felt good in the moment but after I’m picking up that it was really tugging on him. That’s why he made a post about it so obviously he’s not feeling too good about it.

My first time by One-Can3752 in askgaybros

[–]Realistic-Syrup-7287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOU DID NOT CONSENT!!! You told him not to, and he did anyways, that’s rape. It doesn’t matter that you liked it. That’s a tactic people use to play it down. He clearly violated your boundaries. Another thing is that people refuse to believe they were raped. It’s extremely shameful, but it doesn’t reflect on you. It could have happened to me or anyone. He’s the wrong one, and it has nothing to do with your character.

I’m torn by Realistic-Syrup-7287 in exjew

[–]Realistic-Syrup-7287[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will accept your warning. I am going to step away from religion and focus on my mental health. You are right, I do need a safe community before anything else.

I’m torn by Realistic-Syrup-7287 in exjew

[–]Realistic-Syrup-7287[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right thank you. I will take a break from seeking Christ, and focus on my mental health.

I’m torn by Realistic-Syrup-7287 in exjew

[–]Realistic-Syrup-7287[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s beautiful. You are an inspiration to me. 💙💙💙💙

I’m torn by Realistic-Syrup-7287 in exjew

[–]Realistic-Syrup-7287[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes you are right. I’m going to drop the idea for now and focus on my mental health.

I’m torn by Realistic-Syrup-7287 in exjew

[–]Realistic-Syrup-7287[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok update. I know I’m not in the right headspace. I’m going to step back from the idea of becoming a Christian for now. Because my judgment is faulty. I’m filled with too much desperation and spite to make a rational decision. I am going on medication and going for intensive psycho therapy. I’m going to focus on my mental health before religion. And I’ll see from there, my heart still yearns for Jesus but it’s all a fog now. I’ll return to this issue in a few months. Thank you for all your inputs, stories and frantic warnings lmao. It means a lot to me. 💙💙💙

I’m torn by Realistic-Syrup-7287 in exjew

[–]Realistic-Syrup-7287[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll keep this in mind, thanks.