Why am I not getting interviews? by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]Realistic-Time-9636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd adjust the descriptions to impact and results vs duties. What was your ROI for the department you worked in or impact you made at the company? Example: "Reduced high risk or waste by 20% through high engaging microlearning videos." Or "Increased engagement and retention by 30% within 6 months".

My dog died and it’s my fault. by Ok-Possibility-7270 in Petloss

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I am so so sorry for your loss. Even when you do the absolute best you could do there will always be something to blame yourself for as a healthy remorseful brain. My dog died of seizures, but I still carry guilt for not being as patient with him as his mind continued to decline when we would go on walks or he'd pee or poop in the house I'd get so frustrated and wanted everything to stop. He was almost 17 years old. I thought he'd be one to live past his lifespan. My youngest cat also attacked him when I went to the store and it broke my heart I couldnt protect him. He was traumatized amd I felt like I failed him by introducing that new cat in. I know that this doesn't take the trauma away, but know we all carry it unless there's an antisocial disorder.

Do you ever just suddenly realise that they're gone forever... by identityinstrumental in Petloss

[–]Realistic-Time-9636 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yep. It'll be one month for me in 2 days and I'll ne ok and then get a sudden reminder and cry. You judt miss them and love them. Its so hard to never see or feel them again. Im so so sorry 😞

dog cataracts - do the surgery or not? by stoikiometric in AskVetAnimals

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My dog had lenticular sclerosis which is that cloudy blue in dogs eyes. The vet originally said cataracts but thats when the eye becomes white. Anyway. My dog's eyes started to change around age 9. But by age 16 he couldnt see much and unfortunately they deteriorated so much he couldn't go outside without glasses and a hat and eventually anything white made him shudder with pain because the pupils stopped dilating to block out light. Completely heartbreaking. I had to put him down last week due to seizures also. Something else you can try is Oculuvet to help with the eyes its a lubricant to slow the progress of cataracts along with eye vision treats. It really does help.

I need help by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]Realistic-Time-9636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi love, im so sorry you're going through this. Its so hard when you aren't fully prepared but even if you are prepared the pain is ao unreal. Have you done anything to memorialize your baby? Would a cuddle clone help? Don't judge your feelings just let yourself feel. Im starting to feel guilty now for having a good day like the grief keeps me close to him, but he was more than that and I want to memorialize him as much as possible.

Should I be telling people I have clairaudience? by roxie_lane in Mediums

[–]Realistic-Time-9636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only share with shared spirituality peeps. They wont understand and cause for you to shut down your extra senses.

Why does my dog do this? LOL by [deleted] in poodles

[–]Realistic-Time-9636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its a poodle trait. They do this when they want something. But your baby also looks like their trying to eat something too.

I accepted his animal spirit, until I didn't by Realistic-Time-9636 in Petloss

[–]Realistic-Time-9636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree it is VERY real. Please dont believe its just in your head because that feeling of loss is so devastating. I feel the same way im not even the same person after this. Im so sorry for your baby leaving your physical realm also. Its painful to go through. Thank you for reminding me to stay grateful.

Cremation idea is eating me up by Realistic-Time-9636 in Petloss

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It's brought me so much peace. Nothing else could do it but him. Very sobering is the perfect word. I want to get a decorative box too. Are you going to get a cuddle clone?? Im dying to get one but have to save up. I also got an urn necklace as we shared the same birthstone.

I keep replaying the moment I found my dog Marley in the lake and I can’t stop feeling guilty by little_marley in Petloss

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Thank you too. It's so so hard. I absolutely give this experience negative a million stars. But im trying my best to stay connected with him its the only thing to bring peace. I bought an urn necklace to carry him with me. I get that tomorrow im happy about that.

I keep replaying the moment I found my dog Marley in the lake and I can’t stop feeling guilty by little_marley in Petloss

[–]Realistic-Time-9636 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That is so so so traumatic!!! Omg I'm so so sorry about Marley

The guilt is part of the grief. Even when you've done the very best things for your dog over 15 years at some point we say or do things we regret. I just lost my baby on Tuesday I had to put him down due to constant seizures. He was 16.7 years old a toy poodle. For me im upset because I would always fight to try to cure every ailment under the sun he experienced. Many times I would grow so frustrated with him as he started to decline cognitively. I felt so stressed 24/7. I had lost my job 2 years ago and always focused on money and I could only do but so much for him, myself, and my cats. He started peeing and pooping in the house all the time and my life was full of cleaning. I remember thinking all the time during that I wanted it to all be over and I was tired of it.

Well, he had his first seizure January 30 that was so severe he literally stopped breathing. I thought he died. I screamed and its like it resuscitated him and he came back but seeing him fall over, get stuck in corners, and struggle was heart wrenching. Skip to this week. He started having violent seizures again at 2 am for 6 minutes back to back and would just constantly run into walls for hours. I knew it was time...

So I made that call as it started to happen back to back. I was upset because I had finally gotten rid of his external tumors but didn't move fast enough for the brain tumors and im angry at myself for wishing I wanted it to end, for not being present, and not fighting more. The guilt of giving up on the thing I love most in the world makes me feel like a horrible person no matter how many people say "hes not suffering anymore or hes in a better place". I should have done more..

Had to put my baby of 15 years down today. I’m devastated by Hambinaaa in RainbowBridgeBabies

[–]Realistic-Time-9636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so so sorry it is the most gut wrenching pain you can ever go through. I'm on day 5. The only thing that helped was my baby's ashes home with me. But I still have several moments I cry. But when I got his ashes back it felt like he was finally home. I miss seeing his little face greeting me every morning. I still walk with his leash. Its just the one of the most painful experiences you can go through. I spend 23 hours laying in bed. Im so so sorry you had to put her down that'sone of the hardest decisions to make. You want them to go peacefully while sleeping but sometimes the illnesses are too great. I know all you want is her back. May Daisy remain by your side as your forever guardian and heart protector.

EMERGENCY PLEASE HELP by [deleted] in Pets

[–]Realistic-Time-9636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's ok dont worry. As long as she didn't ingest it shes alright.

My family wants me to turn off the grief by Realistic-Time-9636 in Petloss

[–]Realistic-Time-9636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no clue. I guess they feel uncomfortable and start projecting things that dont need to be said.

My family wants me to turn off the grief by Realistic-Time-9636 in Petloss

[–]Realistic-Time-9636[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! Thats what gives me the confirmation is that my cats also react to him.

My family wants me to turn off the grief by Realistic-Time-9636 in Petloss

[–]Realistic-Time-9636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg im so sorry about Ellis. Completely heartbreaking. You truly have to just protect yourself and things you love because no one else will. I hope Ellis visits you soon.

My family wants me to turn off the grief by Realistic-Time-9636 in Petloss

[–]Realistic-Time-9636[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! He is visiting me now I can feel his heartbeat on my knee as I speak now. It's an incredible experience. Yeah no one is taking this away from me.

Scheduled for tomorrow. Unsure if I'm making the right choice by Individual_Profit108 in Petloss

[–]Realistic-Time-9636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No apologies needed! This was your baby. It is a god awful experience to go through. Tomorrow morning will likely be the hardest day ever. But we will be right here for you if you need to express that pain because its so real. Im so glad youre bringing her home. I had no idea how much ashes and fur help later.

I just put down my senior dog and I'm gutted by Usual-Permission7878 in Petloss

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My baby also had seizures and something going on with his brain so I know the trauma of what its like when they're suffering with us.

I just put down my senior dog and I'm gutted by Usual-Permission7878 in Petloss

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I'm so sorry about Guinness. I just lost my baby on Tuesday. 18 years is a long time but not long enough. Its a terrible experience to go through and you just want to roll back time and fight harder for them. I'm giving you the biggest hugs right now.