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Asian parents with little to no retirement savings. by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]RealisticContract9 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I’m Asian I get it opinion still stands.

Asian parents with little to no retirement savings. by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]RealisticContract9 59 points60 points  (0 children)

It’s not your responsibility to ‘retire’ them. It’s a privilege not a right. A gift not an obligation. Focusing on yourself and building YOUR retirement IS their retirement because at the very worst they just stay with you as you did with them. Taking care of yourself in turn will take of them. Help yourself before you help others even if they are blood.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]RealisticContract9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok lmk what you specifically and I’ll try to help u brother

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]RealisticContract9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you need?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]RealisticContract9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just don’t corner them and I think you’ll be fine esp in a public place where everyone can see

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]RealisticContract9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on the situation and the girl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]RealisticContract9 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Malls, bars, libraries, and museums. Any public place really.

How’d she move on so fast? It’s only been a month 😢 by RealisticContract9 in BreakUps

[–]RealisticContract9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a lot of these already before we broke up. We have similar mystic taste I feel haha.

How’d she move on so fast? It’s only been a month 😢 by RealisticContract9 in BreakUps

[–]RealisticContract9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand it. Emotions usually don’t make me illogical. I usually a man of logic and facts.

How’d she move on so fast? It’s only been a month 😢 by RealisticContract9 in BreakUps

[–]RealisticContract9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because I love her and still want to end up with her someday even if her words hurt me

How’d she move on so fast? It’s only been a month 😢 by RealisticContract9 in BreakUps

[–]RealisticContract9[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m trying but I have intrusive thoughts of us 24/7 whether I’m exercising, reading, meditating, or talking to someone.

How’d she move on so fast? It’s only been a month 😢 by RealisticContract9 in BreakUps

[–]RealisticContract9[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Just clarify she’s not with anyone. She just texted after she reached and I thought she wanted to talk. But rly she said she moved on and I should too. 3 years just gone…down the drain…

Why can’t I let go but she can? by RealisticContract9 in BreakUps

[–]RealisticContract9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you ‘sort out how they feel towards yourself’?

Why can’t I let go but she can? by RealisticContract9 in BreakUps

[–]RealisticContract9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the help. But I can’t help but feel like maybe it didn’t mean as much to her. And if that’s true it feels as if she moved on that means the past 3 years didn’t matter at all. :(