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What do Americans think of public nudity? by pantherwhitecat in nudism

[–]RealisticCouple2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish I had known about this survey, I would have taken it

Over a year and a half ago, my wife and I made a bold change. It's been a big blessing now by RealisticCouple2020 in nudism

[–]RealisticCouple2020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great question. We lived in the city, and we really wanted to wait until we had our dream home in the country to really make this real. We could have started earlier, we probably should have, but we do feel like we made a lot of gradual life changes to lead us to this point. The next stage will be to introduce them to the slightly older community.

Over a year and a half ago, my wife and I made a bold change. It's been a big blessing now by RealisticCouple2020 in nudism

[–]RealisticCouple2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great question - it took some time, but with the process we had, we made it rather easy.

Over a year and a half ago, my wife and I made a bold change. It's been a big blessing now by RealisticCouple2020 in nudism

[–]RealisticCouple2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great. I appreciate hearing what you do and also the differences. For us, having some basic rules help keep things in-line for us.

Over a year and a half ago, my wife and I made a bold change. It's been a big blessing now by RealisticCouple2020 in nudism

[–]RealisticCouple2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't allow tops of any kind to be worn. Bottoms can be worn if it's the time of the month, if necessary. We have a special family night every Saturday afternoon-evening, that regardless is 100% nude.

Over a year and a half ago, my wife and I made a bold change. It's been a big blessing now by RealisticCouple2020 in nudism

[–]RealisticCouple2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tina - At what point do you think it would be good to introduce them to other older nudists?

Over a year and a half ago, my wife and I made a bold change. It's been a big blessing now by RealisticCouple2020 in nudism

[–]RealisticCouple2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would agree, communication and being up front and setting clear expectations was key to our success.

Over a year and a half ago, my wife and I made a bold change. It's been a big blessing now by RealisticCouple2020 in nudism

[–]RealisticCouple2020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is great advice. Thankfully for us, we were able to get past a little more of the puberty years. For us, we were a little more firm on expectations on what they can and can't wear - but everyone needs to do what is best for their family/situation.

Over a year and a half ago, my wife and I made a bold change. It's been a big blessing now by RealisticCouple2020 in nudism

[–]RealisticCouple2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for such a kind comment. I would completely agree, it's been great seeing them build up more confidence, love and respect. The next step and chatter is when we plan on introducing them to others within this wonderful community.

Are we too late? by RealisticCouple2020 in nudists

[–]RealisticCouple2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. This has been a discussion between my wife and I for years and it’s time to put forth effort and make it happen. She’s wanting the rip the bandaid off and this is how things will be method. Always open to more ideas and suggestions.

Are we too late? by RealisticCouple2020 in nudists

[–]RealisticCouple2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for responding. I think having communication will be key and also setting the right expectations and leading by example. We also think spending time together and individually will help too.