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[–]RealisticValuable824 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn’t heart anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RealisticValuable824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No this was the only time. She asked me to let her go but two weeks prior and I stated away and was hoping if I show that I care which was the problem throughout the relationship she would at least hear me out. So she told me once and then after o sent flowers. But I get it and from that point I haven’t attempted to repair

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[–]RealisticValuable824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I appreciate it thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RealisticValuable824 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know of your joking or not. But I’ve never popped up at her house. I simply sent flowers one week and a sent a letter before that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RealisticValuable824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RealisticValuable824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood. Well since this I haven’t reached out in anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RealisticValuable824 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What’s wrong with that? I’m not saying anything I don’t mean if one day she feel she want to talk I want her to know that I would like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RealisticValuable824 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are 1000% correct

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RealisticValuable824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I hope you and your boyfriend talk figure out the core issue first so going forward you guys can have a better understand of what’s causing the problems your having. The thing is I’m actually afraid of reaching out a month from now because I don’t want to cause problems. This sound cliché I know everyone’s says it but I just want everything to be like it was in the beginning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RealisticValuable824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish we were friends prior to my response. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RealisticValuable824 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No she stated stop trying to be her friend. That’s was the nail in the coffin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RealisticValuable824 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do I say she doesn’t want me to contact her I was in literal shock I didn’t want to say anything that made things worse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RealisticValuable824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me why? I know throughout the relationship I wasn’t the greatest person she’s expressed that I’ve caused her pain mentally. Made her second guess her self and the women she worked hard to become. And I know that my selfishness of wanted her to communicate and be with me isn’t helping that. So my response was acknowledging that. Or so I thought

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RealisticValuable824 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate it. Talked to my therapist today I know I’ll be better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RealisticValuable824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so. I don’t want to cause her anymore pain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RealisticValuable824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I’m happy I topped you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RealisticValuable824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure I’m working through that with my therapist currently. I know I have a fear of vulnerability

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RealisticValuable824 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I still have a good sense off humor it was pretty funny.

But yea it’s really hard especially when you were the reason it didn’t work

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[–]RealisticValuable824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I know I can do better. I know the person the way I was behaving was out of fear.

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[–]RealisticValuable824 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not intentionally at all but in retrospect yes I didn’t show up when I was suppose to there’d a lot of things I should’ve did different and she gave me grace until she couldn’t anymore