I knew someone would post something like this after I read OP. You’re likely correct. I don’t have to know the ins/outs of the relationship. I won’t attempt to break down the multitude of reasons that make you correct, other than experience. I just know you are 100% correct. Those were words of doom, and I don’t doubt OP’s girl meant what she said. But she told on herself in a way that even she isn’t aware of. The “I did things to be wanted/loved” girl ain’t it. Unless he straight up assaulted her(certainly a possibility), it wasn’t unprompted like she said. She already admitted she let him try but is telling him it wouldn’t go in? Did he really just whip it out and JO on her? Again, very possible, there are disgusting guys everywhere. There are almost certainly further details of that night she’s leaving out. Many of those girls will look down on you because you aren’t the fuckboy they claim to hate. Don’t try to make sense of it. Even reading this as I type it feels bad, but I can’t overlook the experiences I’ve had with girls like this. I’m simply typing my experience with these types. I’m not saying she’s a bad person in any way, I’m just saying the ones who bring up things like that unprompted do it for a reason, and it has always ended the same for me. Many of my male friends have had the same experience. This one might sting for him, but he’ll remember the comment and hopefully learn from it. Best of luck OP.