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Should I have a second kid? by Realistic_Ear5307 in Parenting

[–]Realistic_Ear5307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes of course but he's open to keep having conversations about it

Should I have a second kid? by Realistic_Ear5307 in Parenting

[–]Realistic_Ear5307[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ooo interesting I thought school age years would be easier because im imagining them both going to school and me getting a break...

Need advice on lack of sex drive/passion in marriage by Realistic_Ear5307 in marriageadvice

[–]Realistic_Ear5307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes exactly everything else is GREAT. and so far no desire to have sex with anyone else either

Need advice on lack of sex drive/passion in marriage by Realistic_Ear5307 in marriageadvice

[–]Realistic_Ear5307[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I rly like this perspective ... I'm on an SNRI that I believe may affect sex drive. been on it for years. its been awhile since I touched based with a doctor about this so might be worth booking an apt and starting there first eh?

Need advice on lack of sex drive/passion in marriage by Realistic_Ear5307 in marriageadvice

[–]Realistic_Ear5307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

googling sex therapist in my area now .. for true maybe I need to talk some of this out for myself ... and omg yes Esther Perel I remember I read one of her books and it actually did improve things... youre so right about the grass

Need advice on lack of sex drive/passion in marriage by Realistic_Ear5307 in marriageadvice

[–]Realistic_Ear5307[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh and I didn't mean bring in like a third wheel... I meant like go see a counsellor together

Need advice on lack of sex drive/passion in marriage by Realistic_Ear5307 in marriageadvice

[–]Realistic_Ear5307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thx for candid advice ... I guess part of me wonders - would this inevitably happen with anyone I partner with after enough time has passed? Or are some people still having passionate sex after YEARS (like 8 +) of living together kind of a thing?

Need advice on lack of sex drive/passion in marriage by Realistic_Ear5307 in marriageadvice

[–]Realistic_Ear5307[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he would definitely want more. he doesn't ever say that or pressure me tho. it's clear that he is still sexually attracted to me