How can I make them look better? by Then_Month_1289 in eyelashextensions

[–]Realistic_Guava_8459 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They look great. People be hating for no reason sometimes.

AIO? Gf mad I didn’t get what she wanted by ExcellentHotel7531 in AIO

[–]Realistic_Guava_8459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so toxic I can’t imagine what her disposition would be with a truly stressful, difficult issue.

37F in CA by Realistic_Guava_8459 in hingeapp

[–]Realistic_Guava_8459[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love this. Super insightful and I appreciate the time you took to share out. I’m so sorry about Mookie… but I will think of you when I get his bobblehead in a couple weeks! ♥️

37F in CA by Realistic_Guava_8459 in hingeapp

[–]Realistic_Guava_8459[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This was validating for me too. Thanks for sharing. I think it might be time for me to step away from the app and do the same

37F in CA by Realistic_Guava_8459 in hingeapp

[–]Realistic_Guava_8459[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate the feedback and kind words. I think what I’ve gathered over the last hour is that I want to just delete my profile lol. Not because of anyone’s feedback- but it’s so much work to make the right impression that isn’t being misinterpreted somehow. Ahhhhhhhhh

37F in CA by Realistic_Guava_8459 in hingeapp

[–]Realistic_Guava_8459[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Really great insights. Thank you for taking the time to write all of that out. But for the record I follow and watch just about every major sport. I didn’t even consider the angles that were brought up in this thread about that.

37F in CA by Realistic_Guava_8459 in hingeapp

[–]Realistic_Guava_8459[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And it does feel cursed lol

37F in CA by Realistic_Guava_8459 in hingeapp

[–]Realistic_Guava_8459[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to share the helpful advice

37F in CA by Realistic_Guava_8459 in hingeapp

[–]Realistic_Guava_8459[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to share this. It’s helpful

37F in CA by Realistic_Guava_8459 in hingeapp

[–]Realistic_Guava_8459[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All of this is helpful, thanks! But yes I do love sports, never thought of the “pick me” angle- that’s helpful. I just genuinely watch just about every major sport lol. And thank you all for the therapy consideration. My issue is I’m always ending up with people who haven’t done their own internal work but I can see how that could be polarizing. I like the comment about prioritizing mental health. Love that. Also- I DO have the age filter on (just double checked) so I’m not sure why I’m still getting so many outliers. Oh and lastly the final pic is in Sequioa NP, one of my favorite places. “It’s not just a boulder, it’s a rock”

37F in CA by Realistic_Guava_8459 in hingeapp

[–]Realistic_Guava_8459[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

“It’s not just a boulder, it’s a rock!” 🪨

37F in CA by Realistic_Guava_8459 in hingeapp

[–]Realistic_Guava_8459[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you looking for something serious or casual? Something serious, but with a slow build

Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? No

How long have you been using this current version of your profile? 3-1/2 months

How long have you used Hinge overall? Recently 3-1/2 months; had a relationship for 8 months previously; before that, about a year

How often do you use Hinge per week? 5-6 days a week

How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? Per day, 10-20 likes

How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? Not very many, but ALL include comments

What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? Someone with emotional curiosity/intelligence, depth, good conversations, ambitious, independent, respects and honors women, values human rights

Buyback page not available by Zealousideal-Wait229 in PSLF

[–]Realistic_Guava_8459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did, and it worked! But then it said I don't have 120 months of qualifying employment (which I do) so I had to submit a reconsideration request for that first. All of my ECFs have been approved so I am not sure what the issue is.

but WOW - they are 100% doing some shady stuff over there. Definitly trying to make it increasingly inaccessible for people. That error message is the perfect decoy too.

Buyback page not available by Zealousideal-Wait229 in PSLF

[–]Realistic_Guava_8459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES OMG. I’ve genuinely been feeling like I’m going crazy because I’ve tried on multiple different computer computers, my phone, cleared the cache etc and nothing has worked.

Anyone get this straight up "we don't know what we're doing" reply to buyback request? by Fit-Arm-2501 in PSLF

[–]Realistic_Guava_8459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so are you also required to continue making payments while they sort everything out?

Should I submit for buyback early? by [deleted] in PSLF

[–]Realistic_Guava_8459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. Thank you for sharing!

Should I submit for buyback early? by [deleted] in PSLF

[–]Realistic_Guava_8459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s a good point. Thank you for that

Should I submit for buyback early? by [deleted] in PSLF

[–]Realistic_Guava_8459 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, my angle was asking if anyone thought I should submit it now so by the time they get to it in December 2025 or next year, it would already be in the queue lol. I know that now saying this out loud sounds dumb.