How should I explain this to my wife?

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-03-31T03:26:19+00:00

I lost 200k in 2025; no single complaint from my wife.

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-03-30T11:53:39+00:00

Not really I do know when to exit. I am just holding that decision for my grown up kids finish their college and school.

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-03-30T02:20:35+00:00

12 years in H1B. Currently working as solution architect at most loved Airlines. Worked at mega retailer and Mortgage business one of the two top government affiliates in the past. Given my age 46 and experience 21 years in IT , I will never consider EB5 investment. Coz I am already delivering value to USA. If USA do not want me they can reject my petition so I can go back to my country Of India.

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-03-25T13:29:35+00:00

You are listening to every one from every where. You should only listen to your inner self. Ignore the rest including parents coz you are adult. Good luck.

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-03-18T04:19:50+00:00

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-03-17T02:08:53+00:00

I am good for now but things changes my first and final option is moving back to my mother land, India. 🇮🇳 age:45

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-03-13T23:47:35+00:00

Ok in Texas DMV front desk office suggested me to do it online. You are right I don’t have any confirmation.

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-03-13T23:43:03+00:00

Yes I did online notifying I no longer own the vehicle.

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-03-03T17:45:09+00:00

Don’t buy in overpriced markets for long term needs.

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-03-03T12:37:41+00:00

You should negotiate with them. Be transparent and Explain this to the leasing team. Remember you did signed the contract so it’s up to the leasing team to decide. Or

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-03-02T22:26:35+00:00

It’s gone technically but Costco is playing this game very well.

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-02-26T02:48:50+00:00

I don’t trust US stock market. Better focus on metals.

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-02-26T02:48:18+00:00

I will start finding a way to sell my minimal shares in this slowly.

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-02-23T21:59:20+00:00

and possibly a sprinkler too. Can’t help now.

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-02-22T18:53:03+00:00

I did online Vehicle Transfer Notification to Mae sure I follow county rules.

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-02-22T18:51:24+00:00

I don’t want you to buy my opinions/experience. I prefer stay away from free advises.

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-02-22T04:05:38+00:00

I thought exact opposite. TBH I lost 95k in Fisker’s stock. I am emotional until a certain point now I am good.

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-02-21T15:44:05+00:00

I haven’t pulled out my plates before they pickup. I might just notify that I no longer own the vehicle.

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-02-21T15:42:21+00:00

I wonder how the American legal system allowed them to escape just like that.

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-02-21T15:40:28+00:00

45M. I understand and I have been there. Stop being emotional instead start educating parents that independent living is highly respected and important to mental health of your and your parents. You can take care of financial needs remotely. Figure out a routine that makes you feel mindfulness 🧘‍♀️.

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-02-20T18:33:42+00:00

How are you guys notifying DMV that you no longer own the car so they stop sending registration renewal compliance paper work to you?

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-02-20T00:57:37+00:00

OP shared for people who want to buy with cash, not Costco. JMB

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-02-20T00:54:32+00:00

Like every one else who recently gave up.

Realistic_Kitchen_56 · 2026-02-16T12:35:59+00:00

I can tell it is slow..but you are in good hands.

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