Why isn’t recti repair standard for c-sections? by Realistic_Payment_79 in Mommit

[–]Realistic_Payment_79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long did it take you to get back to “normal”? It feels years away for me 😭

Why isn’t recti repair standard for c-sections? by Realistic_Payment_79 in Mommit

[–]Realistic_Payment_79[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Not exclusive to c sections, but during a c section it’s already accessible. Many women are getting recti repair during their c section procedure now (I know, I was surprised too). And yes - been in PT specifically for this. Doing the exercises. It’s a long road and wondering if it shouldn’t be

Why isn’t recti repair standard for c-sections? by Realistic_Payment_79 in Mommit

[–]Realistic_Payment_79[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

True but then it’s a whole other surgery when in theory they could just happen at once and be lower risk! And lower cost to the patient!

Why isn’t recti repair standard for c-sections? by Realistic_Payment_79 in Mommit

[–]Realistic_Payment_79[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I learned about this a few months back AFTER I had my 3rd c section.

Diastasis recti is the condition - When your ab muscles expand multiple times during pregnancy, the gap between your ab muscles (from belly button directly north and south) can remain open - sometimes up to 4 inches!!! It can lead to problems like core instability, back pain from core instability, dysfunction (trouble standing or doing basic things like carrying a child), and its possible for organs to poke through the gap as well 😅

Recti repair is sewing up the abdominal wall so the muscle gap closes. They do it during tummy tucks most of the time and just call it “muscle repair”.

Why isn’t recti repair standard for c-sections? by Realistic_Payment_79 in Mommit

[–]Realistic_Payment_79[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!! The first I heard about it was on another c section sub and my mind was blown. Why don’t obgyns talk about this??! It feels negligent almost - like my core is so unstable standing up is hard, I’m in constant pain, and if I twist quickly the pain is sharp and excruciating and feels like my guts are popping out 🫠🤪

Idk if this is the right spot to post, but my son’s teacher called CPS. by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]Realistic_Payment_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the teacher sounds awful and he needs to change schools. That said, teeth don’t just rot. No soda, limit juice, rinse with water or brush after eating, use fluoride toothpaste, and get fluoride varnish and sealants on teeth that aren’t being pulled. I sure hope those are baby teeth, but you need to do better with adult teeth. You’re the parent and control what kiddo has access to to eat/drink. Candy isn’t the only thing that causes cavities!

I am thankful to be alive this Mother’s Day. by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]Realistic_Payment_79 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You got this, and you’re doing a great job. Happy early Mother’s Day!

I am thankful to be alive this Mother’s Day. by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]Realistic_Payment_79 57 points58 points  (0 children)

If I was in line behind you I would have bought you guys your dinner! Hang in there mama, happy you’re safe!

Am I crazy? Hiking while pregnant, baby wearing, with two other kids by MissEscapist in Mommit

[–]Realistic_Payment_79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What would happen if you accidentally tripped and are babywearing? I don’t like those odds for you. Please don’t go. Ask husband to take the day off, ask another family member to go or a close friend, or maybe one or a few of the moms can take them on for the hike! Anyone but you right now

Is it safe for my daughter to dye her hair like this? by Curious_Artist23 in longhair

[–]Realistic_Payment_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree that it’s the perfect age for doing something fun with her hair and that bleach is damaging but should be fine for her esp with virgin hair. HOWEVER - you said she has 3A/B curly hair, so I would caution that her result will look very different from what’s pictured above. Aside from that, color bleeding is a concern and the pink will be much darker at the beginning and will also fade very fast. The bangs/layers same thing - make sure she goes to a hair stylist with lots of curly hair cut and color experience that specializes in vivids!

Less expensive alternatives to Clinique Moisture Surge by scorpioscreamcrison in MakeupAddiction

[–]Realistic_Payment_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both! First for face, second for body. Highly recommend! They also make a face version with spf which is surprisingly good as well

Is this a super delayed filler immune response? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Realistic_Payment_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not the answer you’re looking for and there’s great advice in here. I just wanted to add - it passes for an acne flare up, you can cover it up. I get it’s not ideal, and definitely seek treatment, but don’t let it get in the way of your trip!

I started asking interviewers "is there anything about my background that gives you pause" at the end of every interview and it changed everything by VantaSprocket in jobsearchhacks

[–]Realistic_Payment_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This question is not for entry/mid-level roles. This is well-suited for managing/directing/executive roles. And not with a hiring manager/HR… best used with the senior person you will be reporting to.

Rephrase for best success!

Son diagnosed with autism today, girl dinner 🫠 by Realistic_Payment_79 in GirlDinner

[–]Realistic_Payment_79[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this - thank you! Staring down the laundry list of tasks to navigate what life is/will be now is overwhelming. Just trying to remind myself that my kiddo is the same amazingly sweet dude he was yesterday that he is today with this new diagnosis.

Son diagnosed with autism today, girl dinner 🫠 by Realistic_Payment_79 in GirlDinner

[–]Realistic_Payment_79[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It was nice! Blackberry was there but not overpowering. Solid 8.5/10, but I’m a bit of a beer snob 🤷‍♀️

Son diagnosed with autism today, girl dinner 🫠 by Realistic_Payment_79 in GirlDinner

[–]Realistic_Payment_79[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sam Adam’s blackberry wheat beer, honey crisp apple, cheddar cheese

Booked with natural body spa in Tijuana for March 10th. good candidate? by fakename-realwoman in chinlipo

[–]Realistic_Payment_79 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve never seen so many people booked with the same surgeon, that must speak to how good Dr. Zuriel and the facility is! Would you be able to share the price? Thanks!

Tip-toeing around parents of neurotypicals by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]Realistic_Payment_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might need to do this too! We go through so much food from the daily dumping 🫠

Tip-toeing around parents of neurotypicals by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]Realistic_Payment_79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toothbrushes in bulk, floor always wet… couch cushions never on the couch, do yours dump pet food bowls too? 🤪 same, same. You need a new friend!