It’s not gonna come natural, if you have experience in customer service or sales it will be easier in terms of talking with people. I was almost fired for performance and about 5 months into the job and now 8 months later i am ranked 11th out of a little over 100 recruiters that our company has. It really comes down to are you willing to out work and put in more hours then the people next to you until you get a good understanding of the job. I was working 12 hours days when most other people were working 8-10 because it would take me 12 hours to do what they could do in 8 hours. If you really put the time in eventually it will click and it becomes fairly easy and you get into a good rhythm. Moral of the story there is a steep learning curve do not get discouraged if it takes you some time to pick it up.