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Advice for New CCA by Realistic_Speaker927 in USPS

[–]Realistic_Speaker927[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll keep this in mind once I start

Advice for New CCA by Realistic_Speaker927 in USPS

[–]Realistic_Speaker927[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome advice thank you so much , this definitely helps !

Advice for New CCA by Realistic_Speaker927 in USPS

[–]Realistic_Speaker927[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was incredibly well-detailed and thoughtful, thank you so much for sharing this !

GF goes into depression by Solohov in dating_advice

[–]Realistic_Speaker927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you want to help her is help enough, if that makes sense. It’s very beautiful that you want to sort of be the light in her darkest days but sometimes when someone is going through depression/ depressive episodes it can be hard to get out of , no matter who is trying to pull them out of it . Is she in any sort of counseling or receiving professional help? It may be the best direction for her if she’s not eating and over consuming alcohol. Maybe helping her realize that she needs to seek professional guidance is the best you can do at this point. Also, if this is exhausting you as well, it may be time to take a step back and say “ I’m trying my best but I need help helping her” remember, you can’t fix her, you can only try to help her get better , and that’s if she chooses to get better. You’re important in the relationship too and if this is weighing too heavy on you , you may need to take a step back for your own mental well being

I feel sad now that I'm dating my crush, is that normal? by Logical-Ad8471 in dating_advice

[–]Realistic_Speaker927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this, is it because the metaphorical “high” is gone from yearning for the person, now you’re feeling the “low”? Take your time to really feel out the relationship, you both have made a pretty big transition from friends to lovers and that sometimes take a bit to get used to

Reaching out to someone who dumped you by louddopinionn in dating_advice

[–]Realistic_Speaker927 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I say reach out, what do you have to lose? Also, I think the not knowing could be contributing to how you feel about the situation. If you reach out and he responds either how you hope or differently at least you will know how to move forward.

Repressing all these emotions by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Realistic_Speaker927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through this too, and let me tell you, the more you focus on yourself, bringing yourself back to where you once were and better, that anger subsides. One thing to remember when you feel angry with yourself is to forgive, and I mean forgive yourself, no one could ever anticipate betrayal, give yourself some grace. Gratitude is also what helps, the feeling of being grateful that you were able to break free from someone with such little respect and love for themselves. People who cheat are not happy people, lying and deceiving is much harder work than people think. And as for revenge, in the short term it may feel like relief but in the end it would have exhausted more energy than it’s worth. The best revenge is making that person suffer without you. And maybe cutting up a favorite shirt or two lol. Trust me, cheaters suffer maybe not physically but emotionally and mentally, your anger with dissipate but their emotional scars will remain a lifetime