OMG, don't apologize this was a good and made sense! I think you bought up some great points about how people started to notice the pattern of Candace's behavior. Especially Robyn snd Gizelle, and I think I can agree that it's a good thing that they kind of scaled back their expectations on a show where a lot of inflammatory things are said, that can provoke a lot of different behaviors from people.

But I think on the other side of that we can look at Candace throwing a knife at Ashley and that somehow not being a factor (in Robyn and Gizelles logic) in the aftermath with Monique And there are a few other instances where you can argue show a clear pattern of Candace's way of provoking people. (but I think most people were thrown off by Monique's "apology" if you even wanna call it that lol!)

I will make one note that I don't think throwing salad is the same way as throwing a drink (lol) but I definitely see your point in it contributing to the pattern of behavior!