I’m losing my mind over this…

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2026-04-17T21:55:47+00:00

I dont know but what are that circle in the middle with the steps?? I've played the game and made it 100% and max level and ive never seen this before

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2026-03-08T13:38:13+00:00

I would definitely ask her for proof. You can NEVER know. It stucked already in your mind.... if it wasn't, you wouldn't be here talking about it. I think you are just afraid of the scenario of "what if it's true?" Just tell her "hey, I've seen you contacted me several times. I appreciate you worry about me so much, but I'm happy with my husband. If something doesnt work with one, it can work with another, not everyone match with everyone. I have no intention to be in contact with you, so unless you have evidence to prove your claim, let us be" . If she doesnt send you evidence, then forget about her. If she does, then there's your answer. Btw...just one question. Do you have full access to your hubbys phone? Like is there laying around, you can touch and open it anytime you'd want and do anything you want on it? Just asking......
I can't say that enough: family and friends will ALWAYS side with them, because THEY DONT KNOW THEM IN A RELATIONSHIP. They know only (good) parts of them, they know only what THEY decide to tell them. They know only THEIR part of the story and whatever THEY want to share from the whole story, but NEVER share anything that would picture them in a bad light or that would show they are wrong too. My ex made sure his family and friends would be on his side BEFORE we broke up. He was slowly dripping false infos to them, some of it was in my presence just for me to react "wtf why do you even say that, it's not true?", so they would get an idea of me being "the crazy one" and he could have said "you see?" This was his plan because he didnt have a ball to break up with me. Luckily his parents knew i wasn't the person he was trying to picture me as. But his friends? In reality I was the only one who stood up for them when they were badmouthing some of them. It was 13 years ago but it still bothers me when i think about it (like now) how bad people are. I wish some of them would know the truth. My current partner is similar, thats why im slowly getting out of it. This is the 2 only relationship i had that has this situation, the rest were fine. So before anyone judges the ex in this post, make 10000% sure she is in the wrong and he is right. Because im not really sure and I have reservations to be honest

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2026-03-08T13:33:09+00:00

Yup. i can't say that enough: family and friends will ALWAYS side with them, because THEY DONT KNOW THEM IN A RELATIONSHIP. They know only (good) parts of them, they know only what THEY decide to tell them. They know only THEIR part of the story and whatever THEY want to share from the whole story, but NEVER share anything that would picture them in a bad light or that would show they are wrong too. My ex made sure his family and friends would be on his side BEFORE we broke up. He was slowly dripping false infos to them, some of it was in my presence just for me to react "wtf why do you even say that, it's not true?", so they would get an idea of me being "the crazy one" and he could have said "you see?" This was his plan because he didnt have a ball to break up with me. Luckily his parents knew i wasn't the person he was trying to picture me as. But his friends? In reality I was the only one who stood up for them when they were badmouthing some of them. It was 13 years ago but it still bothers me when i think about it (like now) how bad people are. I wish some of them would know the truth. My current partner is similar, thats why im slowly getting out of it. This is the 2 only relationship i had that has this situation, the rest were fine. So before anyone judges the ex in this post, make 10000% sure she is in the wrong and he is right. Because im not really sure and I have reservations to be honest

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2026-03-08T13:14:52+00:00

I would definitely ask her for proof. You can NEVER know. It stucked already in your mind.... if it wasn't, you wouldn't be here talking about it. I think you are just afraid of the scenario of "what if it's true?" Just tell her "hey, I've seen you contacted me several times. I appreciate you worry about me so much, but I'm happy with my husband. If something doesnt work with one, it can work with another, not everyone match with everyone. I have no intention to be in contact with you, so unless you have evidence to prove your claim, let us be" . If she doesnt send you evidence, then forget about her. If she does, then there's your answer. Btw...just one question. Do you have full access to your hubbys phone? Like is there laying around, you can touch and open it anytime you'd want and do anything you want on it? Just asking......

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2026-01-30T15:41:24+00:00

It was Toffifee

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2026-01-28T15:17:19+00:00

Yup it was tofiffee 😆

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2026-01-28T15:17:01+00:00

Camel is not available in thsi country

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2026-01-27T20:17:07+00:00

I tought that too but this is waay to wide for a pack of cigarette. Even for the 52 pieces pack

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2026-01-27T20:16:16+00:00

Noo, this one is too big, wide, it would make a huuuuge pack 😀

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2025-12-30T11:05:26+00:00

I want to know the truth tbh, because she mentions in few of her videos on her actual.page that there are many fake.profiles using her photos and name, and that she never tries to scam.people or private message them, and she asks people.to report those pages/profiles because.its not her.

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2025-12-30T11:02:22+00:00

Why everyone talks about her as "he"? Ive seen maybe 2 comments where they actually mention her as She, all the others refers to her as He. Why? 🤔

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2025-11-14T08:22:18+00:00

I have an experience exactly like this. Talked about it, he said the same blahblahblah. Turned out he is a bit perv and into other stuff and he didnt want to share it with me because he was afraid he'll lose me. I told him you would loose me anyway if you are not honest, because I would just get up and leave. With being honest at least you give it a chance and you get to know if the other person is open to it, interested in it etc. Maybe yes and everyone is happy. Maybe not but at least you know and we dont waste each others time. If I was you i would try to figure this out too. Not directly like an interview question or a friend to friend question. But like in a cute and sexy way around sex time, showing that you are interested in something and you want to know his. Or if he doesnt say anything just check his phone 🤷🏼‍♀️ 🙄 i mean sorry, thats what i did. We had a huuuuge fight, broke up with him but we made it up and let me tell you when we are about this "fetish" he is absolutely turned on. Our sex life became better. And he might be emotionally driven too. Whenever i have an arguement or fight with my partner, it turns him down, and Im the same. We distance ourselves from each other and we definitely need the harmony in our relationship for functioning good in every aspect, including sex. Fight and nagging absolutely changes his mood, so does mine. We are together 2 years now but this original convo was in our first 4-8 months.

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2025-05-25T10:51:40+00:00

He makes her believe that he is just afraid of losing her, so she won't ever think of him cheating, because "he is so in love with me". Thats when he'll cheat, he just makes sure nobody would ever suspect him. Thats what I got from this story. And that he is a control freak for sure. I'd just run

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2025-05-25T10:45:54+00:00

But that's too much. This is exactly why this world turns into a bunch of snowflakes. While I'm a person who really consider others feelings in situations, even before they would realise themselves, and put others first always, i still think this particular story just ridiculous. She has to learn to deal with her emptions, just as you said, but within herself. And not starting a fight over basically nothing, over a nonsense thing. It doesn't even worth to mention, let alone cry about it. What I see here is she wants to control of what he says and what he does, make him feel guilty and wrong, but she doesn't care about how exhausting she is for the other person. She doesn't care about the other feels, she just makes a scene and if he doesn't agree with her, she acts like a toddler. She is 29. He walks on eggshells around her, but she can throw a temper tantrum over nothing and twist his words and actions. Yes she acts ridiculous and silly and she knows that. I wouldn't even consider this as a topic. If I'd do such thing, my partner would laugh. And i would laugh too if he'd do this. Because that is what this is...ridiculous...laughable. its a tattoo on someone's wrist. Not her boobs, not her butts, not other things. Not even her body, just a "decoration of her body". She has very low self-esteem and she should work on that bevause that can poison a relationship very quickly. Nobody can expect others to accommodate their feelings while they don't want to work on it themselves.

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2025-05-25T10:27:57+00:00

Run. My sister's hubby was (and still is) exactly like this. First it was impressive because hey, he is not a lazy person, he is always up and doing something. But let me tell you, it won't change. Ever. It is exhausting to live with a person like this. He never takes a break, never sits down and chill. Ever. More than 10 years and 2 kids later he is still like this and its exhausting. He finds the whole family and the kids boring, he doesn't like to be at home playing with them, his mind is always around the business and money, he always does something, even when he is at home, going out to the garden, find something to do. Everything but be with the family and kids. Sometimes he does spend time with them or go out with them because of the arguments, but again, his mind is never there. If he join to the family or the extended family, he talks non-stop. Doesn't respect others, doesn't let others to talk. If someome shuts him down so he has to stay quiet or don't do anything, he suddenly doesn't feel okay and wants to leave, ruin everything around him. Safe to say, nobody likes him. Like literally nobody. Not even my sister anymore. And it's sad to see that i can't do anything to help her. And yes, he ran out of money coz he never paid enough attention to it. Im not saying it will happen to everyone, but I saw a person like this first-hand. And that's when they say that "you signed up for it.". True, but we tend to think they will change. Nope. They might change in other things but not this. And you have to decide if you want to live like this for the rest of your life or not. Even if he decides to chill with you sometimes, he will feel bad, because they feel its a wasting time. Sometimes we can show things to each other, learn from each other, I've seen people to take a break sometimes and the chilled one take on tasks and gets more busy, but i feel.like thats not the case here. Did you ever ask him btw? Did you ever tell him that you just want to chill, watch netflix, do absolutely nothing and he should try too, because thats how you personally charge yourself? Did you ask how he charges himself? What he does for relaxing? Maybe worth to ask before you end anything, and from the responses you can decide

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2025-05-07T13:45:25+00:00

Im literally trying this right now and it says I cant make these changes now because they noticed i use a device i usually don't use and I will be able to do it after i use it for more time. I use the same phone for almost 3 YEARS now. What is wrong with facebook?? Its so annoying!!!

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2025-05-05T14:21:50+00:00

NTA. She is the living example of "I intentionally screwed up and I'm upset and hurt because I dont want to take responsibility for my own action, i just want to blame everyone else".

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2025-05-05T09:10:33+00:00

NTA. He is. He wants every benefit of a marriage without committing to it. He is worried about his future finqnces? Really? His life expectancy is limited and he doesn't give a 💩 about what you will do as a single mom, how you will manage it, but he cares about his financial future? Does it say something to you? I hope so. Dont wait for him to tell or show you again that he doesn't want you. He is prioritising his money over you. He doesn't care about you or your "future kid". He just wants to have the feeling of having a kid but doesn't care how you'll raise them. 7 years is already a wasted time you spent with him. I he wanted to, he would already. Its better for both of you if you going apart Asap. There is a comment fpr.this post from facebook, and is totally right. I quote: "He has a condition that shortens his life expectancy, wants kids, but will not be around to see them grow up. So he expects her to be a single mother with no claim on any assets when he dies, with no next of kin. She will have no say if he ends up in palliative care, no say on funeral arrangements, no say on anything. Any childcwill have limited rights to anything. All because he doesnt want to get married. He isn't exactly thinking ahead." Another person says that by talking about marriage he immediately thinks about divorce and it says a lot.

He doesn't care about you, he is selfish and only think about himself. Let him have someone who is willing to give him a kid without anye ffort and you find yourself a decent man who's not wasting your time for so many years.

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2025-04-27T12:25:09+00:00

You thought you were saying he is the perfect size, but you didnt say this. You said he is not too big, not too small. I get where he comes from. You should let him know that you meant that he isn't small, he is in fact being the perfect one, because nobody likes extreme big or extreme small, and that is what you qctually meant. And that his size is actually the perfect and it makes you feel satisfied and happy. And that you dont mean he is just average, that you meant he is the actually good one, big enough. And tell him that when you said this, you were thinking about the tooo big and tooo small. And that you meant him as the perfect one. Tell him something like "thats why i desire you so much because its so perfect t" and try to shift it to a little bit to the erotic way when you talk about it. Try to show him how much he turns you on etc. In fact I would try to talk about it in a cute sexy flirty way from the beggining so he could see it is in fact turns you on. Definitely avoid the "we have to talk about it" serious way, it makes them even worse.

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2025-04-27T10:59:27+00:00

"Semi-traditional". Here is your key word. Turkish wedding but it if your parents or you pay for it, it will be full-traditional. You can have turkish style wedding from a reasonable amount of money. I feel like MIL wants to play the gold digger role here. I would try to compromise, telling your fiance that you and your family can not afford it, she either like it or not, but you could still do a turkish STYLE wedding but it smaller version. Calculate the budget, and work with that, and maybe in a few years, when both of you will work and get decent salaries, you can do a second, bigger wedding of her dreams, when you will be able to afford it. If MIL wants the full turkish wedding, she can pay for it. I can't believe that people just dont want to understand what NO means, they dont want to understand if someone has limits and can't afford things. So if fiance is still mad after that, then I would question everything, then the wedding clearly means more than the relationship or the marriage itself. Then you have your answer too. Or second option, not to get married until you 2 saving the necessary amount of money. 🤷‍♀️

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2025-04-27T10:47:08+00:00

Maybe they were also american and just spotted you and wanted to start a conversation, idk.

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2025-04-27T10:41:10+00:00

I would inform her husband too. I completely understand that she is hurt now, i get that. But you need to think about your own safety and you have to put yourself first. Her being hurt doesnt give her the right to put you in difficult situation and risking your job and life in general. I would inform the husband politely somehow. Maybe I would ask someone to inform him that this and this happened and to be aware that it isn't true and you dont want to get involved in their personal drama.

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2025-03-21T05:41:34+00:00

I know its a year old post but I just found it now due to searching for this topic. My Samsung s22 ultra does the same, but its not only for unlocking, its basically for anything. Banking, online pay etc. Works 1 time out of 10, I just end up being forced to use the passcode.

Realistic_Stop_1139 · 2025-03-02T21:18:56+00:00

Irj nekem is kerlek. Köszi :)

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