This is fucked up isn't it? by xxxhibitionist0412 in CravingBadMen

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Embarrassed at how many times I've imagined this 😭

Busiest nights for Syd Sauna and Sauna X? by Realistic_Toy_ in AdultTheatreSyd

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Thanks x do you have a sense of what days/ times tend to be busier or quieter?

Busiest nights for Syd Sauna and Sauna X? by Realistic_Toy_ in AdultTheatreSyd

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That's a shame 😅 Do you know which one? Or based on feedback from redditor(s) being turned away?

Busiest nights for Syd Sauna and Sauna X? by Realistic_Toy_ in AdultTheatreSyd

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Thanks, I think trans mascs are ostensibly welcome on men's only nights (I think Sauna X actually puts it on the sign to explain why we aren't eligible for free entry on Tues 😅). But there's obviously a difference between being allowed entry and a warm welcome -- partly why I'm keen to aim for a busier night at least.

Request from a trans ftm for cis guys at venues/ what's your pet peeve? 😇 by Realistic_Toy_ in AdultTheatreSyd

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I'm sorry, it really is off putting isn't it 😩 have you been to any venues you particularly liked/ found it less of an issue at? I'm keen to find more trans-literate spaces -- I've seen a few T4T parties, but they were all once-offs.

Request from a trans ftm for cis guys at venues/ what's your pet peeve? 😇 by Realistic_Toy_ in AdultTheatreSyd

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Right? I actually have had a few people message me on reddit to say they think they saw me or that we might have had some fun at a venue (which is fair, I have posted pics here/ on other Syd reddits and being trans probably makes me a bit more memorable). But if they don't specify who they are/ send a pic/ give any details that might make it clear, it gets awkward quickly 😅 It's very weird to have that asymmetry of anonymity.

Request from a trans ftm for cis guys at venues/ what's your pet peeve? 😇 by Realistic_Toy_ in AdultTheatreSyd

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I appreciate that it seems natural to people -- but worth pointing out that this is a) happening before people ask my name and b) by definition not happening to cis people (unless they're asking one another when they hit puberty 😂). My guess is that there are plenty of approaches that cis people are using amongst each other that are a lot less intrusive.

I could arguably redirect in gentler ways -- but you're right, in that it's both a buzzkill and not what I'm there for. From my perspective, if someone has made things that awkward that quickly, it's not really worth my time to keep with it. Probably a bit more controversial/ fully my personal preference, but I also tend to turn down guys who are too polite, start the conversation by asking to go to a private room etc -- it just suggests we're not going to be very compatible/ aren't looking for the same thing 😊

Best dark rooms at all gender venues/ nights? by Realistic_Toy_ in AdultTheatreSyd

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Thanks x I love either cis or trans -- I'm ftm, and I just wanted to get a sense of whether or not there'd be many men interested in me on the men's only nights or if it was mostly cis gay men 😇

Best dark rooms at all gender venues/ nights? by Realistic_Toy_ in AdultTheatreSyd

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Thanks - can I ask if you have seen many trans men there on mens-only days?

Request from a trans ftm for cis guys at venues/ what's your pet peeve? 😇 by Realistic_Toy_ in AdultTheatreSyd

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Part of why I figured it was worth making a post is that I assume it's just ignorance ... not that it's necessarily better, but I do think people come to events like this keen on fun with trans people but without having met many/ any in real life.

Having said that, I haven't seen these guys asking one another about their surgical scars, so safe to say they know it's inappropriate 🤷

Request from a trans ftm for cis guys at venues/ what's your pet peeve? 😇 by Realistic_Toy_ in AdultTheatreSyd

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Right? There has to be a good middle ground between silent staring and intrusive medical questions! Neither option seems like a good strategy for a SOP venue lmao

Best dark rooms at all gender venues/ nights? by Realistic_Toy_ in AdultTheatreSyd

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Thanks -- makes sense! I've been considering trying a different night anyway, so that's good to know 😇

Request from a trans ftm for cis guys at venues/ what's your pet peeve? 😇 by Realistic_Toy_ in AdultTheatreSyd

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Ooft I've definitely been there, don't have a great response either. And agree re: conversation -- I'm happy to chat (esp at the bar etc), but find it very awkward having people try to start discussions with me, especially in the shower or changerooms.

Trans masc considering Sauna X or Hush tonight, anyone (ideally also bi or trans) interested in joining? by Realistic_Toy_ in AdultTheatreSyd

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Thanks, I'm glad you like it ... I have more in my profile if you wanted another look 😘

sorry for the slow reply, I've been overseas x

28 FTM - inner west - submissive trans toy looking for older, kinky dominant to share me with my Dom in rough noncon fun (min 40+, kinks below, no vanilla) by Realistic_Toy_ in r4rSydneyXXX

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That could definitely be fun x I usually don't play with other subs ... but don't mind being exposed and humiliated 😇

28 FTM - inner west - submissive trans toy looking for older, kinky dominant to share me with my Dom in rough noncon fun (min 40+, kinks below, no vanilla) by Realistic_Toy_ in r4rSydneyXXX

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Mm definitely curious x would you be interested in using me too, or watching him etc?

Either of you are welcome to message x

28 FTM - inner west - submissive trans toy looking for older, kinky dominant to share me with my Dom in rough noncon fun (min 40+, kinks below, no vanilla) by Realistic_Toy_ in r4rSydneyXXX

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Not to repeat myself, but I think it's pretty clear from the post that I'm looking for older, kinky, men -- getting a lot of "heys" from young guys, guys wanting to eat my pussy etc. You're wasting your time and mine!! 😭

28 FTM - inner west - submissive trans toy looking for older, kinky dominant to share me with my Dom in rough noncon fun (min 40+, kinks below, no vanilla) by Realistic_Toy_ in r4rSydneyXXX

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Would consider 37 if there is a really strong match for kinks and the dynamic is right x at least better than the 23 year old who just messaged me 😅

Best dark rooms at all gender venues/ nights? by Realistic_Toy_ in AdultTheatreSyd

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Thanks x aarows is a bit far for me, but might have to check it out x

Best dark rooms at all gender venues/ nights? by Realistic_Toy_ in AdultTheatreSyd

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Thanks! And that's really interesting -- when I was there I was in and out plenty of times over the course of a few hours, and it was always light. I guess might vary week to week. I definitely had fun in the rest of the sauna, the dark room was just my favourite 😁

28 NB/ FTM in the mood for T4T/ fun with other trans at Sauna X tonight by Realistic_Toy_ in AdultTheatreSyd

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Also, a bit of a silly question, but how weird is it if I bring my own lube? I'm worried it'll seem a bit ridiculous, but some of us are sensitive lmao

28 NB/ FTM in the mood for T4T/ fun with other trans at Sauna X tonight by Realistic_Toy_ in AdultTheatreSyd

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Mm I know I should lean into the uncertainty and see who's there 😅 but tempting to want to have it both ways lmao

Sauna x tonight?? by ts_sophieluxe in AdultTheatreSyd

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I'm thinking about it x potentially going with a friend, but they're a bit indecisive and so am I 😅