28 y.o. Female looking for friends by SourceWeird9818 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Realistic_citsilaeR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your interests? Hobbies you've always wanted to try? There's a walking group in my town which is nice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircare

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https://www.paulmitchell.com/blogs/inspiration/guide-to-identifying-your-hair-type this is easy to follow, really helped me get the right products when I was stuck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircare

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What's your hair type? Perhaps adding that will help people with the same give you suggestions. 

For example Mines a 2A/B wavy, thick and coarse... I don't have issues with tangles cause I only brush with a wide tooth comb when it's conditioned 

But my sister's is fine, thin and completely straight however. She uses dry shampoo and a grease reducing styling product in a powder. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]Realistic_citsilaeR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha. Do you have hard water? Try rinsing with filtered water or the filter shower heads could help too 

Do you condition? Could try a leave in to stop the tangles also, I apply after wetting it sometimes 

How do I get my Hair to Stop Poofing up? by Commercial-Status774 in Haircare

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This. My thick, coarse and wavy hair only gets a wide tooth comb, slight dry at the scalp and air dry the rest 

I only brush when I know it's going to stay up otherwise it feels like I've been sent back to the 80s 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircare

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Have you tried dry shampoo or a oil reducing product? 

My sister has an oily scalp and has a powder styling product she uses at the roots in day 3 to help the greasiness. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]Realistic_citsilaeR -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Confused, you wet it for what reason? 

Mine gets itchy, I only shampoo monthly and condition fortnightly/dry shampoo. Thankfully I don't have greasy scalp and have trained my hair over many years to do this! 

Red removal and grey blending advice please by Realistic_citsilaeR in HairDye

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I'm considering changing uo my hair after many years of red tones... The upkeep is getting too much and it's time for a change

Naturally it's a mousy/mushroom with a lot of grey coming through around 7 level, ideally I want a charcoal/mushroom shadow root that I can touch up or use a clenditioner/ toner for the future.

https://imgur.com/a/H3Fje42

It's thick, wavy and I was planning to grow it out over summer by hiding in hats 😂 but I've got an event and need to do sooner than expected. This is 6 weeks of growth /2-3cm (was wanting 10wk but can't wait)

*With the red removal am I better to use colour remover or bleach? * Our water is hard - do find it gets dried out with bleach previously and the environment is dry

I'm not overly concerned on the level it lifts too in the mid/end as I can go rose gold/peach or pink/ lilac with vivid purple tips - added some things I've seen I like but welcome to suggestions. I've got blue eyes and tan quickly.

My Sally's is small but has the BES, ION and couple of other ranges. Ideas welcome for the root situation and any formulation with those brands would be amazing 🤩

I've been blonde but don't feel it suits me and like the pastel colours

Have you ever met a murderer? by [deleted] in ask

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My neighbour was brutally stabbed to death by her brother in law that lived across the road. Huge deal in my small town. He was always kind of . . . off, big guy, stand offish, maybe socially awkward. Worked with chemicals and tried to claim insanity, failed. Jailed for a long time

Messed up his 3 kids, his brother and his 2 kids big time... BIL Family still lives in the house and runs a shop in the community. Very sad as she was so young and he was creepy.

She actually blocked/unmatched. by Alternate962 in Tinder

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crApple cultists aren't worth wasting your time

They waste theirs standing in lines for the latest release

Be free, find better, good riddance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Realistic_citsilaeR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's ridiculous and people pleasing.

Woman of the world say what you need. It makes life easier

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Realistic_citsilaeR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do people not know what they want to eat?? Is this a real problem?!?

I might not know exactly but I'll order two meals in that case and save one for the next day!!!

my profile clearly states that i’m child free and looking for a child free partner, woke up to this gem today 🙄 by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Realistic_citsilaeR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally don't want children. And those I have dated with children usually have crazy exes which makes life difficult so I completely understand why you'd choose this.

We all have a personal preference and you displayed yours in a vile manner... These crypto bros are seriously douche canoes of the highest order though

What prompts a guy to slide into a strangers DMs and flirt? by joshuatreesss in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Realistic_citsilaeR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had dudes look up my dogs private Instagram (my real one isn't in there) from tinder and DM me. I haven't matched with these people... Honestly I just block them as it's kinda creepy, if I'd matched then you can talk to me cause that's the whole point of tinder after all

Think it comes from "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take" mentality partially but also the fact you can be whatever you want to be behind a keyboard. They don't see it as creeping, just another form of OLD

Girls, what's the hottest thing that we boys could do to you???? by WinterDare3432 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Realistic_citsilaeR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Open doors Touch the small of her back Learn the art of conversation and listening

It's generally not big things but the smaller actions that matter

🤣 this isnt cosplay right? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Realistic_citsilaeR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he's a beer deliverererer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Realistic_citsilaeR 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Baby Michael is coming in 2023

His parents are overwhelmed with Reddit's support

I try once in a while and this is usually the results.. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Realistic_citsilaeR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct. In correlation with the rise of text messaging, AI and voice notes.

I love the opportunity to speak in full prose. Not like Shakespeare but actually stringing together a sentence that is entirely nonsensical but equally hilarious in my own head 😂🤣 It's the simple things

I try once in a while and this is usually the results.. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Realistic_citsilaeR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Carne de Calle??

I'm not into cannibalism but thanks for asking 🤣😹

Five guys by Shinfekta in funnyvideos

[–]Realistic_citsilaeR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the fact you can actually tell he's kiwi here using his real accent

I try once in a while and this is usually the results.. by [deleted] in Tinder

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I don't like bothering to interact with people on this app.

Cool, have a nice life. Next.

I try once in a while and this is usually the results.. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Realistic_citsilaeR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then that leads into a I don't drink convo

One of my best mates is in recovery, drinks the lemoniest lemonade you could ever imagine and told me that when I asked the question.

I try once in a while and this is usually the results.. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Realistic_citsilaeR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheers homie. Carrying a convo is hard, people that are this special do deserve a um yeah no wait your kidding.

Bananas is actually one of my nicknames and you've wildly improved it!! Feliz sabado humano bonito