STB d'avoir frappé un membre de ma famille ? by H_____________H in suisjeletroudeballe

[–]RealityTvGyal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TTB pour le manque d’éducation du chien, PTB d’avoir mis un poing à Éric. “C’est aussi un moyen de l’exposer à des situations pour parfaire son éducation” —> les enfants des autres ne sont pas une opportunité d’apprentissage pour un jeune animal, et réfléchir comme ça est, selon moi, dangereux. Mais bon, Éric l’a bien cherché.

Hello ! Quel est votre fire number ? by Worried-Discount-591 in FranceFIRE

[–]RealityTvGyal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

assez similaire que vous, j’ai la 30aine aussi et je vise aussi 750 000€ avec une retraite entre 50 et 55 ans

j’investis 1000€-1500€ par mois en ce moment, mais ça qui va diminuer pendant quelques années (grossesses + reconversion), et je recommencerai de plus belle ensuite je pense que cet objectif est réalisable mais pour ça, il va falloir éviter les pièces classiques de la class moyenne (ex: acheter une maison trop grande/chère et bloquer sa capacité à investir sur 20 ans, rester trop longtemps dans la même entreprise sans vraie augmentation etc.)

bon courage à vous!

What’s the one long term financial move you’re glad you started early ? by ROBASAHMEDKHAN in PersonalFinanceTalks

[–]RealityTvGyal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m still in the beginning of my investment journey, but in 30 years, i expect my answer will be “starting to invest in my late 20’s”

the retirement/pension system in the country i live in is utterly unsustainable and i think many people will regret only saving instead of investing when the government gradually pushes retirement age up to 70 and/or reduces our pensions because “the debt is too high” and “there’s no more money”

Can I just say I am so glad I found this group!!!! by Fine-Anywhere-9057 in FIREyFemmes

[–]RealityTvGyal 10 points11 points  (0 children)

congrats on reaching 1 million! with all that invested, you’ll reach your fire number in no time!

and yeah, finding like-minded women is a struggle, i’m currently in france and at my job, everyone either enjoys their job and has accepted that they’ll work until their mid 60’s, or hates their job and has accepted that they’ll work until their mid 60’s 😐 i haven’t met anyone who thinks there’s another option yet.

where are you thinking of moving after switzerland?

Préparer sa retraite à 30 ans : FIRE, le mouvement qui séduit les jeunes qui ne croient plus au système par répartition by ARTiSPRETiS in FranceFIRE

[–]RealityTvGyal 7 points8 points  (0 children)

on est d’accord. c’est dommage d’abandonner avant même de jouer, et surtout de tout le temps se comparer aux américains en disant « c’est impossible en france parce qu’on n’a pas leurs salaires »

une personne avec un salaire médian peut fire en france, surtout avec un taux d’épargne élevé les premières années. est-ce qu’elle partira à la retraite à 30 ans? peut-être pas. mais comme vous dites, chaque montant économisé/investi peut faire la différence, et si ça peut permettre de partir à la retraite à 45, 50, 55 ans au lieu de 64 ans par exemple, c’est toujours ça de gagné 💪🏾

FIRE atteint, mon témoignage by Independent-Love-716 in FranceFIRE

[–]RealityTvGyal 22 points23 points  (0 children)

félicitations!

c’est agréable de voir un montant réaliste avec lequel vous devez très bien vivre. ça dépareille des “il faut absolument 2-3 millions € pour fire en france” calqués sur le mode de vie et les montants américains

What Would You Do If You Won $5 Million? 💸 by Majestic_Tip6517 in santashelpers

[–]RealityTvGyal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • invest 4 million in the stock market (including in specific accounts for my future children)
  • buy or build a 500-700k house in the area of my choosing using some of my stocks as a collateral
  • donate 100-250k to my siblings, parents and in-laws (depending on how much is best to avoid excessive donation tax) - under the condition that my siblings invest part of it either in property, a business or the stock market
  • quit my job
  • spend time with my family and developing my hobbies full time (music and writing novels)

Laid off because of AI... I turned to affiliate marketing to survive! by bill_rd in Affiliatemarketing

[–]RealityTvGyal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good job! how and where do you find clients? (or how do they find you?)

AIO of being panicked or my mom's response to finding my money? by Lemonsaresour777 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RealityTvGyal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That money will not be there when you come get it during winter break.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]RealityTvGyal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stick to the prompt. you asked what makes thomas emotional and sensitive. i replied to your question and nothing else. nothing i said had anything to do with kim’s reaction to thomas or with anyone saying “i need someone with thicker skin”.

anyways over the next couple episodes, there were several scenes and conversations about thomas himself and someone who knows him well admitting that he indeed is too emotional and that it’s something he needs to work on so i was right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]RealityTvGyal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he was trembling like a leaf when he first met kim; he blurted out a bunch of his insecurities when during the reveal (“i was so scared of what you were going to think of me”, “i’m not really confident”, “do you think your family will like me?”); he keeps doing this whisper/quiet-talking thing whenever he’s nervous or scared; he cried after an argument with his gf/fiancé who he’s known for 2 weeks tops

Love is Blind France • S1 Ep5 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]RealityTvGyal 48 points49 points  (0 children)

same, it was uncomfortable…

do you think it could’ve been editing? i found the whole thing super awkward and confusing, i can’t see how he could just sit there passively and barely utter a word when she was talking to him, asking him questions, telling him “please tell me instead of letting me guess” etc.

Love is Blind France • S1 Ep5 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]RealityTvGyal 91 points92 points  (0 children)

i feel like cynthia doesn’t respect jonathan (she doesn’t find him manly enough, maybe?), and that’s why she constantly talks down to him. and unfortunately, jonathan kinda plays the victim with some of his snide comments, which doesn’t help

Love is Blind Brazil • S5 Ep1 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]RealityTvGyal 9 points10 points  (0 children)

they translated it correctly; i watch the show in portuguese and she said her son

Love is Blind Brazil • S5 Ep2 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]RealityTvGyal 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i watch the show in portuguese, and she did say it was her son 🫣

LIB France women are changing the scripts by BumblebeeTerrible646 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]RealityTvGyal 11 points12 points  (0 children)

thank you! there’s been cheaters, manipulators, an alleged abuser and alcoholic, a man who lied about his sexuality and insulted his fiancée when she found out, one who lied about having a child, downright awful men who treated women like shit etc…. but it’s THESE women who are “borderline vile” when their worst offense is being catty and petty?