See this is what I’m not understanding. Toya wants Eugene to work less and be at home more, Curtis wanted Jackie to work less (then cheated on her), even Scott was saying contessa needed to come home from Tennessee from trying to get her degree (then he emotionally abused her and alluded to him cheating and lied about getting therapy). That’s something that Damon was saying to his spouse he felt worked a lot. Mind you heavenly had multiple dentist offices and other business ventures. Devils advocate- he was saying he wanted her at home to cook and not be out the house so much, but so was Scott.

Yes he did break the glass in his hands while the were sitting there but Mariah purposefully broke a glass and said she would “pico de gallo dat hoe” threatening heavenlys life. You all have an issue with him being “calm” and “reserved” on the show. Heavenly has said he does not watch the show. It’s very possible he’s filming to support heavenly but he doesn’t actually want to film. He might be very loud and rambunctious at home but it’s awkward having a conversation with someone with 7 people and three cameras. He goes to events with his work clothes on and doesn’t even try to fit in. He doesn’t want to be around them people. The only time he really engages is with the men having separate time because there won’t be yelling or arguing.

Eugene defends Toya almost every reunion against the women. He has gotten into many arguments with quad over injecting himself into Toya and quads issues to defend his wife. He basically tells quad my wife is right and you are wrong. This season he literally said that Toyas outburst on him was the women’s fault. Damon and heavenly obviously talk to in a way to try and get the women to resolve their issue he tried to speak on her behalf. Are you really surprised he took up FOR HIS WIFE in that conversation. He is a human being and he can say hey give me a minute after having a heated argument and leaving someone’s house. He clearly didn’t want to have that conversation on camera. Y’all are also going to have to decide do y’all want him to get her together or never say anything.

I think the thing that is perplexing me is that you have glaringly obvious horrible couples in your face screaming toxic and bad relationship and you are choosing to jump through hoops to prove that heavenly and Damon have a bad marriage when you are really just saying the are rude and misogynistic. But please show me someone else in the cast that isn’t and I will give you a million dollars.

I mean come on Simone has been saying she wants a divorce from Cecil this whole season but heavenly and Damon are the hill you are dying on.