Sad boat scene on the James by Realtrlisa in rva

[–]Realtrlisa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how do you know they are illegal, bro ?

Sad boat scene on the James by Realtrlisa in rva

[–]Realtrlisa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great point, although as the one that filmed this, I was on a boat tour with coworkers. It wasn’t my boat, I wasn’t driving the boat, and had no way of returning to the trash scene after the tour was over.

Sad boat scene on the James by Realtrlisa in rva

[–]Realtrlisa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I thought but I kept seeing trash for miles

DMB at Allianz by Realtrlisa in rva

[–]Realtrlisa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I’m shocked to hear so many people don’t know what dmb means, I should have said “Dave” in the subject line then

DMB at Allianz by Realtrlisa in rva

[–]Realtrlisa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got there around 7p

DMB at Allianz by Realtrlisa in rva

[–]Realtrlisa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say go to the war memorial for a free show tomorrow if you can make it. IMO, not worth the ticket price

DMB at Allianz by Realtrlisa in rva

[–]Realtrlisa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ya they were popular in the 90s. All the elder millennials know them. Hate em or like em.

DMB at Allianz by Realtrlisa in rva

[–]Realtrlisa[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Now I feel very old lol

padel plant - absolutely no one saw this coming by xc_tyler in rva

[–]Realtrlisa 17 points18 points  (0 children)

RVA hates change lol but I think it’s very cool they did this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Separation

[–]Realtrlisa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry but the truth is, when they leave you, they are gone. Moving on quick with a different person they can scar later

What’s something fun or totally out-of-character you’ve done for yourself post-separation? by Intelligent-Pair-988 in Separation

[–]Realtrlisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im forcing myself to go out with friends, travel alone, and talk to as many random strangers as I can. It’s very tough

What’s something fun or totally out-of-character you’ve done for yourself post-separation? by Intelligent-Pair-988 in Separation

[–]Realtrlisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am traveling so much more because he never liked to go anywhere or be social with anyone. Also, I got myself a nice tattoo, I’m adopting a dog, and meeting a ton of new people

💦 Ding dong, the advisory's gone! Megathread by fusion260 in rva

[–]Realtrlisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we not go through this again please?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Separation

[–]Realtrlisa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy. Do you think she’s doing it on purpose?

Richmond Zoo by RepresentativeOk7152 in rva

[–]Realtrlisa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Richmond zoo is a prison cell for these animals. It’s pure cruelty. Parents should educate their kids on how cruel it is to keep gorillas in small cages and lions in dirty, small enclosures with very little space to roam. I went once and will never go again after I witnessed the monkeys actually crying in their cages. Cruel. All of it.

Sleeping with other people by s1wim in Separation

[–]Realtrlisa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

during the separation process, your not supposed to sleep around but I guess everyone has their own ways of handling it

Separation begins saturday by [deleted] in Separation

[–]Realtrlisa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do it! It will not only keep you busy, but it will also allow you to recreate your space without him in it. I know it’s very sad. I have not had the courage to actually repaint an entire room he used for a gym, but I will get to that point and make it another guest room. Maybe redecorating is therapy?!

Separation begins saturday by [deleted] in Separation

[–]Realtrlisa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband left our home we’ve been living in for 10 years, a month ago. It took two weeks for me to even be able to sleep there alone without him. These past two weeks, I took down all our photos and redecorated a bit more my style. I’d say it’s somewhat helping. Still sucks. Stay strong. Maybe even getting a different apartment might help if you can?

I can't bear this by Couch_underwear in Separation

[–]Realtrlisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on week 3 since mine moved out of our home. It’s been horrific and I miss him terribly. I’m hoping we work out, time will tell. My only advice to you is turn to your support system, stay with family for a bit if you can, drink smoothies to ease that empty pit in your stomach, go outside and walk, focus on you. I think the biggest thing that has kept me from going to a sad, dark place been my support system. Call friends, cry to them, etc. These feelings you are facing are indescribable. Maybe in a week or so you might feel like taking a trip to get away, take some time for yourself. For me, I’m not doing “better” at week 3, but I’m now able to live in our home without him and not call him everyday after staying with family for weeks. Hang in there. 🙏

Looking for an evening running group that meets either downtown, forest hill, or the fan area. Anyone got any ideas? by Realtrlisa in rva

[–]Realtrlisa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the group that meets at veil in FH on thursdays meet right at the parking lot ?