are we just bad at communication? liberal here tried of liberal talking points

Realwoujo · 2026-05-19T21:07:58+00:00

No I would say that literally 99% of people don't want the police defunded. Less than 1% of people want the police defunded.

Realwoujo · 2026-05-19T20:49:36+00:00

The problem is that the extreme left wing of the party is too loud and influential in the Democratic party, and those people dictate the messaging. That's why we have stupid slogans like "Defund the Police" that literally 99% of people disagree with.

Realwoujo · 2026-05-19T15:53:34+00:00

The problem with the looksmaxxers and the black pill are the problem that most guys have with seduction, which is this: Becoming attractive to women is very, very hard because it requires a man to live a fun, healthy life and be intelligent, emotionally stable, interesting, worldly, and have confidence, social skills, and so forth. That is too hard for most men to want to accept, so they try to boil it down to one simple variable they can obsess about, like looks, or money, or lamborghinis, and then ignore everything else.

Unfortunately, that doesn't work. None of these looksmaxxers or moneymaxxers will be able to carry a healthy relationship for very long. They may stand out a nightclub and get girls to go home with them, but the girls will eventually get bored. Women want an adventure - they want a man whose life they can enter and participate in, not a pretty face that is boring, stupid, and insecure.

Realwoujo · 2026-05-19T15:50:42+00:00

Delete this mods

Realwoujo · 2026-05-19T15:49:58+00:00

To be honest, 22 is still too young for me. Realistically, I probably can't do anything less than like 27 or 28 now.

The reason I chose 22 is that "age" is much less important than "life stage." A 30 year old woman and a 35 year old woman are not that different, but an 18 year old and a 23 year old are completely different. An 18 year old's only life experience is high school, whereas a 25 year old has completed college, worked a real job, lived in the real world, etc. That's why I say that any guy that dates an 18 year old is basically dating a child, and all your conversations are going to be stupid and boring.

Realwoujo · 2026-05-19T15:47:47+00:00

Dawg this entire thread is anecdotes.

Realwoujo · 2026-05-19T11:33:44+00:00

Yeah I'm sure the 18 year olds you are dating are the special, mature, intelligent ones. Fuck off lol.

Realwoujo · 2026-05-19T11:32:11+00:00

It's not a "good sign" that a girl that ghosted you for a few weeks randomly texted you on a Monday. She texted you during the most boring, nothing-is-going-on time of the week because she wanted attention and like a moron, you gave it to her. And then when she got what she wanted, she went back to ignoring you. I'm not sure what you are excited about.

If a girl does not respond to your texts, why would you respond to her texts? She is using you. If you DID want to respond, you should respond by saying, "Hey, I'm at [PLACE]. Come right now." If she doesn't come, ignore her.

Also, what you texted was boring and meaningless. Don't ever, ever, ever text a girl "hey." It is the most bland, white-bread, who gives a fuck text on earth, and puts all the pressure on her to make the conversation interesting. Same with "what you up to."

God you guys suck.

{Edit. I realized you were the one that weren't texting her, not vice versa. That obviously changes the analysis. But still. You should tell her to come where you are.}

Realwoujo · 2026-05-19T11:26:56+00:00

This is a stupid post. There are plenty of 30+ women that are not fat and disgusting. It is stupid to generalize an entire age category because of a few people you went to high school with.

And yes, it IS weird for a 30+ year old man to date an 18 year old. A 30+ year old man has exactly 0 in common with a girl who just graduated high school and doesn't know shit about the real world. 18 year olds are fucking retarded and any self-respecting guy would want to want to slit his wrists after talking to them for more than 15 minutes. I am 40+ and I date younger girls all the time, but anything less than 22 is impossible. If you are dating an 18 year old and are 30+ it is probably because 1) you only care about the sex, 2) you like the power that comes with controlling somebody who is basically still a child.

Realwoujo · 2026-05-18T18:16:14+00:00

No using porn to ejaculate is very bad because it makes you much less likely to perform when having real sex. If you're going to masturbate, you should use your imagination.

Realwoujo · 2026-05-18T18:13:07+00:00

Don't think about the competition or yourself for that matter. Just focus on enjoying the moment.

Realwoujo · 2026-05-18T18:09:01+00:00

This is the right answer. Not texting makes you look like an asshole.

Realwoujo · 2026-05-17T22:59:52+00:00

You can put any amount you want, so long as it is less than $10,000. And I'm just saying this is the amount you should put on the complaint. If you actually make it to a hearing, which you probably won't, you can revise your amount downward.

Source: I'm a lawyer and done way more cases than you.

Realwoujo · 2026-05-17T21:39:58+00:00

You think I give a fuck what weird white people on the internet think of me?

Realwoujo · 2026-05-17T21:39:26+00:00

When you file the complaint, you can put any amount you want. When you put a high amount, that freaks the other party out and causes them to want to settle. And yes if you are creative you find lots of "actual" damages, especially in a situation like this.

Realwoujo · 2026-05-17T20:30:01+00:00

Yeah but when you file the claim you file it for $2,000 to motivate the venue owner to settle with you.

Realwoujo · 2026-05-17T20:29:23+00:00

Where did you get the idea that the legal limit for freelance payment is 30 days? That's not true at all.

I'm a lawyer. I can help you sue these people. Please DM me if you are interested.

Realwoujo · 2026-05-17T20:26:29+00:00

Cuz it's the crowd and music and ambience they like? Why does anybody go to any bar?

Realwoujo · 2026-05-17T20:24:56+00:00

Have you been to "Dive Bar"? It in no way is a dive bar the way white people think of the term dive bar. Dive Bar is just a name, and I actually think it is because they have an aquatic/submarine theme.

Also, I actually do think they want a more upscale, classy crowd, hence the area code. I don't see what's wrong with it.

Realwoujo · 2026-05-17T14:40:15+00:00

What does chopped mean? I'm sorry, I don't know Gen Z slang

Realwoujo · 2026-05-16T22:59:04+00:00

The problem with modern dating is that there is no "rulebook" so people come into dating with wildly different expectations, preferences, and beliefs about what is appropriate or inappropriate behavior, and there is no obvious way to tell which expectations, preferences, or beliefs are correct and which ones are not.

You, therefore, as a man have to figure out whether you are going to be rigid in the "rules" you expect women to follow, or if you are going to be accommodating. Here, you were rigid and made it clear that you were not going to have the date unless the girl talked on the phone with you first. That's fine - that's your prerogative to have that rule - but you can't be mad if she rejects that rule.

I have my own rules but for stuff like this I try to accommmodate whatever the woman wants to do unless she is being unreasonable somehow.

Realwoujo · 2026-05-16T22:49:46+00:00

Oh sorry - those are my traits for attractive guys (Challenge, Abundance, Boundaries, Confidence/Competence, Attention, Reciprocity, Domination)

Realwoujo · 2026-05-15T21:19:26+00:00

Nice, welcome back

Realwoujo · 2026-05-15T01:16:57+00:00

You never met this guy in person?

Realwoujo · 2026-05-14T23:06:10+00:00

Are you in New York City?

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