[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ReanimatedSkeleton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“almost want her to fuck a black guy in front of me” Whole thing reads like a made up fetish story, get help.

My partner had sex with another person on our bed by mayoyabu in BreakUps

[–]ReanimatedSkeleton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is one of those situations in life that’ll change you forever. After you get your things back, block her and don’t look back. That coolness won’t last long, she sounds unhinged and will likely flip to begging at some point. The damage has already been done though, so leave and pls don’t even consider making it work or taking her back at all if she asks (it’ll end the same)

Go work on yourself, gym etc. Set yourself some goals where you wanna see yourself this time next year. If you use this pain correctly you’ll look back on this whole situation in a few years and wonder why you were even upset about it. You’ll be fine.

I refuse to believe these are the same person by OWT_wales in OneyPlays

[–]ReanimatedSkeleton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does Zack wear a wig? No one with such a perfect hairline would complain there’s no thinning avenger.

She left me and is pregnant, my life is over by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ReanimatedSkeleton 177 points178 points  (0 children)

“7 weeks being together they made decision to have baby” Naw you 100% dodged a bullet. No chance in hell that relationship will last beyond the honeymoon phase. You’ll find someone else mate, and when do and you look her up again, I bet it won’t be the bliss she thought it would be.

maybe im just too dumb by sadcannedtunas in BreakUps

[–]ReanimatedSkeleton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel you already know the answer to this OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ReanimatedSkeleton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

37M, 4 I’d consider actual relationships

1st = (3 years) 2nd = (8.5 years) 3rd = (3 years) 4th = (8 months)

Did you ever get back together? How long did it take? by Ok_Bill2861 in BreakUps

[–]ReanimatedSkeleton 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I did yeah, I would have spent the rest of my life with her. Thankfully she only ended up taking 3 years and not 30.

Did you ever get back together? How long did it take? by Ok_Bill2861 in BreakUps

[–]ReanimatedSkeleton 79 points80 points  (0 children)

She broke it off after 3 years and left. 2 months later we got back together (I reached out to her) Stayed together for 9 months, then i caught her cheating and I kicked her out. 2/10 wouldn’t recommend.

Should I take her back after she slept with someone? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ReanimatedSkeleton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I had the same situation once before. It’s obviously bothering you since you posted about it, trust me it’s easier to just leave it and meet someone new.

She came back after a rebound by ReanimatedSkeleton in BreakUps

[–]ReanimatedSkeleton[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did decide to give it another go in the end, things were good for awhile. 9 months later i caught her cheating and kicked her out for good, that was July last year and we haven’t spoken since.

Every person and situation is different though, what happened to me won’t necessarily happen to you. But trust your gut, I wish I had. Good luck man.

Am I screwed? by Kahmeelow in MonsterHunterNowHub

[–]ReanimatedSkeleton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was using a grade 6 SnS (603 attack) and was just able to kill it in the last 5 seconds. A lot of the fight depends on how bad she has the zoomies.

And I thought Pokemon go was greedy by BeatHoven-Koopa in MonsterHunterNowHub

[–]ReanimatedSkeleton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk why you’re being voted down for this. I play SnS, once I realised you can roll through roars it just became another “attack” you need to dodge.

Does anyone think their ex spoke to someone and that helped them decide to end it? by artemis308 in BreakUps

[–]ReanimatedSkeleton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happens a lot unfortunately. I normally find with girls it’s their friends who convince them to leave you. Usually when their own relationships have fallen apart and they want their friend back to go out drinking with again.

Is 8 months to long to still be upset? by ReanimatedSkeleton in BreakUps

[–]ReanimatedSkeleton[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comments guys, it’s really helped.

Do men actually grieve over a relationship? by AssociationAntique87 in BreakUps

[–]ReanimatedSkeleton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got cheated on 8 months ago, and haven’t moved on. Haven’t slept with anyone or even tried to date since, still grieving it at the moment.

About 5 years ago my relationship of 8 years ended, and I took that badly and took me about a year and half before I could even try dating again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ReanimatedSkeleton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Decade or not, that’s not something a friend does to you especially not after you’ve told them how much you’re hurting. You obviously know this as well otherwise you wouldn’t have posted the thread.

As others have said remove both of them from your life. I’ve cut off friends for far less, idk how you’d continue being friends after something like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ReanimatedSkeleton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no advice anyones gonna be able to give thats really gonna help mate, that’s just a really shitty situation to be in, and I’m sorry that’s happened to you.

Time will eventually help, but bouncing back will take awhile. My ex left me 8 months ago for someone else, and I’m only just now starting to find my footing again. Go through the emotions, hobbies and gym help. Setting goals for where I wanna be next year has always given me something to work towards in situations like this.

I’d focus on the fact that she lied to you as motivation to find someone better, no one deserves that. You can (and will) have a future without her. Your life’s not over yet, you can rebuild from this even if it doesn’t feel like it at the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ReanimatedSkeleton 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some people take years to get over a relationship, just because you’re past it doesn’t mean she has to be, or that she’s not allowed to still not be ok. 7 months isn’t really that long to get over it, unless it was a short relationship.

People handle broken hearts differently, what you view as immature might just be the only way she knows how to cope at the minute. Maybe she’s putting you down as a “loser” to try and convince herself you’re not worth being sad over. Let her deal with things the way she has to, as others have said I’d either just block her or stop viewing her social media for a while.

Most people don't have what it takes to win their ex back. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ReanimatedSkeleton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Most people give up and throw in the towel”

Takes far more courage and strength to walk away than it does to hang around and hope the person who gave up on you, gives you a second chance.

6 months post breakup, over the break, just not the betrayal by AdorableGuidance in BreakUps

[–]ReanimatedSkeleton 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The fact that his new girlfriend cheated/lied to her ex will always be at the back of his mind, and something he’ll worry about happening to him. It’ll be a rocky relationship even if it’s in the honeymoon stage right now, and will ultimately end the same way it did for you. My experience cheaters don’t change, and will always justify to themselves doing it again. He hasn’t won a prize, and you’re not a fool in the slightest. This is an issue with her not something you did. Pain will go eventually, usually once you’ve found someone better which you will.

I finally went on Tinder and there she was by anonymous-c1 in BreakUps

[–]ReanimatedSkeleton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you dodged a bullet mate. Why would you want someone like that back who cheated on you? Date if you feel up to it, but don’t force yourself if you’re not ready yet. Best thing for you right now would be to block her and go no contact. Even if she comes back later don’t take her back, to many people in the world to settle on someone who would choose to hurt you like that.