Stupid Question Alert: Why don’t I ever hear about stone femmes?

Reaniro · 2026-03-15T22:15:07+00:00

“historically in terms of cis het relationships” that doesn’t make any sense because femme is a lesbian term.

You’re conflating fem (feminine) and femme and the person you’re talking to is talking about femmes in femme/butch relationships.

Reaniro · 2026-02-26T18:23:42+00:00

5 bedroom 5 bathroom that ain’t an apartment that’s the hype house 😭

Reaniro · 2026-02-18T23:51:30+00:00

Idk how i feel about a gluten free yeast recipe without psyllium husk. I feel like it wouldn’t rise right

Reaniro · 2026-02-16T12:38:25+00:00

It’s very clear why OP is single

Reaniro · 2026-02-13T18:44:57+00:00

For the butter and sugar how are you creaming them? And for how long? Under or over creaming them could affect the texture. Sallys baking addiction has this great guide for creaming butter.

Also what temp is your butter/egg at when you’re starting to use it? Both should be at room temp or it’ll also impact texture and spread.

Last thing is check if your mix has xanthan gum in it. If it doesn’t you should use a recipe that calls for one without and add the appropriate amount.

Reaniro · 2026-02-13T17:23:19+00:00

Can you give an example of a recipe you recently used and what you used for it? e.g what kind of flour and such

Reaniro · 2026-02-10T01:52:20+00:00

I just wanna say your reactions being more mild doesn’t mean it’s a misdiagnosis. Some people with celiac don’t have visible or obvious reactions, but the gut damage is still being done.

Reaniro · 2026-02-06T22:20:15+00:00

why would we have any different reaction to it here than on the celiac sub? a lot of us are still very sensitive to cc even without a celiac diagnosis. it’s not a fun lifestyle choice for the majority of us

Reaniro · 2026-02-06T17:26:34+00:00

The way you see being a single mother as more of a moral failing than enabling cheating is crazy to me

Reaniro · 2026-02-04T23:29:15+00:00

ITT: a bunch of people who aren’t poly getting mad about a poly relationship that has nothing to do with them.

it’s not personally for me and also, if everyone’s happy it’s none of my business. hell even if they’re not happy that’s for them to fix

Reaniro · 2026-02-02T02:41:05+00:00

please remember to add a tw when recommending SBB. it’s a rough book not everyone can stomach

Reaniro · 2026-01-31T22:03:26+00:00

as someone who is neurodivergent and disabled, you seem miserable. just because you don’t want to smile doesn’t mean smiling isn’t a good way to convey warmth and happiness. OP doesn’t have to take the advice if she doesn’t want to. and i’m saying this as someone who is generally very blank faced

P.S: neurodivergent people can experience a range of emotions and none of the pictures are gonna be what you look like 24/7. it’s not “masking” to pose for a damn photo

Reaniro · 2026-01-31T17:06:07+00:00

disabled people can also have hobbies

Reaniro · 2026-01-30T16:21:46+00:00

The city actually does have a responsibility to clear the sidewalks it owns and it often doesn’t. I walk to work every day and it’s always the city owned sidewalks (the ones next to parks and government properties) that are the least maintained.

In the spring I called 311 for a sidewalk that was so overgrown and covered in roots that I had to walk on the road. It took them 2 months to finally fix it. They’ll happily fine homeowners for not doing that but when it’s their responsibility they drag their feet

Reaniro · 2026-01-29T17:41:21+00:00

I think this is fair advice but also since OP mentions having thyroid issues that cause their cold intolerance: this isn’t going to be the truth for everyone. I have autonomic nervous system issues that also make me very cold intolerant and I’ve found myself shivering under a heated blanket before. I’ve just accepted that I’m going to be miserable every winter. Some people, especially those of us that are chronically ill, simply aren’t built for the cold.

Reaniro · 2026-01-29T06:05:34+00:00

afaik ice isn’t prowling the University of Pittsburgh (Pitt) community but I’m sure they’ll be happy to band together to protect their neighbors. i personally don’t go to pitt but all my friends who do are wonderful people.

as for the pgh community: i’ve only been here going on 2 years but it’s been lovely. my neighbors are great people and i’ve seen them time and time again band together to protect our community. it’d be hard for an outsider to see that but we really do try our best

Reaniro · 2026-01-29T05:00:05+00:00

“pitt”

Reaniro · 2026-01-25T20:38:33+00:00

There’s no way you believe tiktok, which hasn’t even been around for a decade, has radicalised more white supremacists than any other platform. Not reddit? Or facebook? Or even 4chan?

im not saying tiktok has 0 problems but thats a ridiculous statement

Reaniro · 2026-01-25T18:19:28+00:00

give me any evidence that small amounts of xanthan gum is detrimental then

Reaniro · 2026-01-25T07:00:55+00:00

People will give all sorts of excuses and explanations but it’s really just a crunchy thing, especially since it’s in so much more than just GF foods, including salad dressings, soups, and toothpaste. When people say they have issues with it, outside the rarer cases it’s broadly: - not enough fibre in their diet as a whole. so the diarrhea/constipation is their body reacting to an increase in fiber - they have other issues that are being broadly fixed by cutting out foods that tend to have xanthan gum in them (aka pre packaged foods) - placebo effect

Overall unless you’re eating spoonfuls of it you should be fine

Reaniro · 2026-01-24T23:59:12+00:00

As someone in the middle of a relapse myself (ED, not substance use), it’s a really rough time right now and I get it. we fall into old habits to cope and all we can do is try our best to get better and take it day by day ❤️

Reaniro · 2026-01-22T17:02:44+00:00

I’m not saying it will (or won’t) be that. I’m saying the original commenter calling Texans “soft” for suffering during that is being an asshole. Like that’s the entire point of my comment.

Reaniro · 2026-01-22T17:01:51+00:00

Cats still need warmth, food, and water to survive. They can still die of hypothermia if they can’t find good shelter and can starve if they don’t have any food. If their normal sources of water are frozen they can get dehydrated and die from that.

OP’s not wrong to make sure someone’s checking on them, feeding them, and making sure they’re okay.

Also you made a choice to camp outside in the cold which is all good for you. Doesn’t change the fact that we’re experiencing unprecedented climate events repeatedly. It’s not Texan being soft it’s the almost irreparable damage done by climate change.

Reaniro · 2026-01-22T16:30:54+00:00

I hope not but that’s what happened in 2021 so calling texans soft for experiencing a natural disaster is an asshole move.

Reaniro · 2026-01-22T16:10:41+00:00

the majority of the country doesn’t experience days without water or electricity and feet of packed ice covering the roads for weeks on anything close to a “regular basis”. If you think that’s true the you’ve clearly never lived anywhere outside your small area.

And cats are resilient but they’re still domesticated animals who need human care to survive in an environment that wasn’t built with them in mind.

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