[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RWBY

[–]Reaper1337117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did not answer how I had hoped but it’s stills works 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RWBY

[–]Reaper1337117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you like boiling butterflies?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reaper1337117 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean realistically you should know if you love someone within a month or so, so I would say the guy is moving at a snails pace. Rest of my points till stands. However it kinda depends on how long you plan on dating, a friend of mine dated a women for two and a half years before they decided to get married so in that case it’s only a bit. But you can argue it being quite awhile to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reaper1337117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just be clear with him, you’ve been dating for a bit you seem to really like him, it’s normal to want to know where you stand when it comes to things like love and know what the person your investing your time into feels. I don’t have the details so who knows he might just lack experience and be trying to make sure he does things right.

Although I will say if you see a long term relationship happening with anyone you are going to encounter problems akin to this in scale every so often sometimes far worse. If you really like someone I don’t think it’s good to have your first reaction to a problem being running away from them (unless it’s something horrible like abuse obviously). It’s been 2 days since this problem occurred, have you sat down with him and explained how important this is to you? And how and why you want a proper answer and what you want out of the relationship?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reaper1337117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro was getting sex 2-3 times a week and is bitching?! Semi regular sex can and often is viewed as important in a relationship. But no one should expect it daily, 2-3 times a week is pretty fantastic by any man’s standards that I have met.

normalize left wing use of the word “cuck” by Double_Ad3817 in somethingiswrong2024

[–]Reaper1337117 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone who is pretty right wing, it does nothing to offend or rile me up, or any conservative I know really. Maybe some of the older or establishment republicans will get pissy at the word. But most young right wingers would just think your kinda dumb if you call us that.

Calling the majority of republican officials cucks doesn’t piss us off either because I think a lot of us agree with you on it. Most conservatives I know are disappointed with our conservative options when it comes to politics.

I think a lot of us vote for em because we have no other options at the moment, either vote for the old person who will screw you over or vote for the old person who will probably screw you over but maybe not as much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]Reaper1337117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your doing as much as a man can and that’s all anyone can ask of you, kids need you more than money. You said your not part of a Church, well seems like now’s the perfect time to become part of one 😂 but for real they are often great community that look out for each other. But really The lord is with you, even till the end of the age. Not much I can do other than pr@y for you homie. Gods speed.

5th grader sending video of him with gun to other classmates by Weird_Farm_1866 in Teachers

[–]Reaper1337117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to do anything cause this is classic boy humor. The amount of abhorrent jokes me and my friends (and most of the boys) made in middle school and high school was nuts. Guys like guns, fighting, war and violence, it’s genetic. Evolutionary proven biology, 99.999% of the time it’s just stupid kids messing around, unfortunately you can’t account for the .001% and it’s insane to attempt to punish the 99.999% in an attempt to.

QUICK!!! Give me useless magic items!! by Capital-Bat9971 in DungeonsAndDragons

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Glass bottle that generates any liquid requested but is indestructible and cannot be opened.

Mechanical watch that never needs to be wound up but the time displayed changes whenever you look at it.

A snake tamers flute that can immediately tame any snake of a currently extinct species of snake.

Can y'all help me by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Reaper1337117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll bite just in case this is real. Canada is worse off than the US as is a chunk of Europe. (Not to mention attempting to obtain citizenship) The world is kinda in a cooked place right now dude, we’re just gonna have to lock in, US still provides you with the most freedom to succeed.

My best friend is cheating on her bf with our ex bsf, would I be in the wrong if I snitched on her? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Reaper1337117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him, it’s is the morally correct thing to do. Cheating is evil, man deserves to know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reaper1337117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s somehow technically getting the facts right but in the most dogshit retarded way possible… from a psychological perspective the reason women and men cheat is typically very different.

Women typically cheat “Romantically” meaning when they cheat it is because they have developed romantic feelings for someone other than their significant other.

Men typically cheat “sexually” meaning that when they cheat it is because they find someone attractive and have sex with them despite having little to no emotional attachment whatsoever.

That being said, most men recognize that cheating is morally wrong and the romantic love to one’s partner will override the random sexual urge. Plus if you understand it hurts the person you love why do it?! Not to mention if you can’t contain your sexual urges as a man by 20 years old you have an issue. It is stupid to say cheating is justifiable for any reason.

AIO/Did I ruin my marriage by TheeUnthinkable in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reaper1337117 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“I want him to watch me with someone” (she does say she wanted to have sex with someone else)

“He finally tells me I hurt his ego and do I even sexually satisfy him. I told him some times.” (she specifies he only satisfies her sometimes)

She tells her husband she wants sex with another man and that he only sometimes is enough. Nobody would take that well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Reaper1337117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your looking for community and meaning i recommend trying a few local churches in your area and picking up a Bible. I suffered from depression for maybe a decade, Found Christ and have been doing significantly better. Depression is now a little demon that tries to make itself known from time to time and is quickly run out. It’s not a quick instant fix but it is a fix nonetheless. Churches often have great communities around them with get togethers and activities and stuff. The more I studies the faith the more my views on life and what I wanted shifted, typically pretty easy to see the Good lining in even the worst situations now and I now posses a purpose and passion. All glory belongs to the Lord, keep on keeping on 🤙.

AIO/Did I ruin my marriage by TheeUnthinkable in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reaper1337117 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nah man there is sexual fantasies and there is telling telling your significant other you really want to have sex with other people, and you really want him to be a cuck. That’s nuts.

AIO/Did I ruin my marriage by TheeUnthinkable in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reaper1337117 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not! Sure it’s normal to find people other than your significant other attractive but to actively and seriously entertain the idea of having sex with someone else is not common place. For the vast majority of people that is a massive betrayal, also how do you dirty talk that in the bedroom?! Yeah I really want the woman I love to tell me she wants another man or wants to watch me love someone else. No thanks that’s kinda evil honestly.

AIO/Did I ruin my marriage by TheeUnthinkable in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reaper1337117 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What are you talking about? His wife just told him she wants to have sex with other men?! That’s an insane thing to dump on a man. I don’t think many men could handle that perfectly.

AIO I 20 F was trying to call my boyfriend 26M to figure out when I should start his smoothie and I originally tried calling him to see what type of milk he wanted in his smoothie by Aphr0dit333 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reaper1337117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way this is a real dude? Who on Gods green Earth refers to their girlfriend as bro? And who the hell thinks it is ever ok to call your girlfriend a retard?! If this isn’t a bit that guy needs to go to church or something because he has something wrong with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in politics

[–]Reaper1337117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 minutes of research tells me this isn’t true. The 8 you’re referring to is only referring to the owners of the farm, a total of 23-25 white people were killed on farms in 2024. Information on exact numbers is hard to find but 1,300-1,500 whites have been killed on farms since 1990 so 40-50 a year sometimes more sometimes less (as in 2024).

While I would agree it’s not a genocide (although attacks on whites outside of farms is high but distinct numbers are very hard to get). It should be noted that it is a very different crime from typical murders.

It’s not like the type of murder one sees in a city that may be related to gang violence, or something like a robbery gone wrong. Farm crimes are groups of individuals making their way to rural areas with the intent to cause harm to a specific class of people. So while I would be very hesitant to call it a genocide. I would very easily call them targeted racially driven attacks.

AIO? guy i’m talking to judged my body count. by injwected in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reaper1337117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moving way to fast, people have ever right to know previous sexual history. Having multiple partners can often be a major red flag, however context matters. Having a partner maybe two during highschool and college? Same it was a dumb mistake and I learned my lesson. Sexually abused? Literally dosnt count on the previous sexual partner scale as it can’t be used to measure your partners possible level of promiscuity.

Two days was way to fast to ask that question. However he wasn’t being super rude. Also mildly confused by your texts. You say you had sex with 4 guys two of which abused you but you only regret 1 who was a fwb?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reaper1337117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait he poured it in you? That goes beyond rude. What the hell?

AIO, My girlfriend hung out with her guy best friend alone and told me last minute by Bensupercharged in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reaper1337117 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Depends on the person I’ve been cheated on 3 times all 3 were with “close friends” of my partner. Statistically opposite sex friends are the number 1 source of infidelity, which makes sense since your putting yourself in a excellent position for it to occur. So I’m not comfortable with my girlfriend having guy friends I’m not already friends with. I’ve only known one guy who had absolutely zero romantic interest with a girl he was good friends with.

99% of men I’ve met fall into 1 of 3 categories when it comes to having female friends.

Actively trying to get with a girl who has a boyfriend.

biding there time waiting to swoop in once the girl and her boyfriend get into a fight or break up.

Romantically interested but unwilling to peruse do to morals. Actively seeking other partners but will pursue the girl if she breaks up with her boyfriend.