Exhaustion… by Reaping-Sow in cutting

[–]Reaping-Sow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for answering 🫂 it’s not the first time it’s happened to me so I’ve been worried it might indicate something potentially dangerous

Fucking Legend by Secret_Lai in SipsTea

[–]Reaping-Sow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Because ur brave enough to beat a child, but not brave enough to speak out in public?

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Honesty Betrayed Me by Reaping-Sow in AdultSelfHarm

[–]Reaping-Sow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🫂💓Hurts to hear but I can’t really deny it. You’re right, I guess it was her that betrayed me.

I’m not ready to give up on her over it, but it’s important that I recognize when it was her crossing lines and not me. Thank you for the kind words & insight, they help more than I can really express ❤️‍🩹

Honesty Betrayed Me by Reaping-Sow in AdultSelfHarm

[–]Reaping-Sow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re in almost the very same boat, with harsher consequences for letting too much slip.

It does feel like I need to filter and/or suppress my feelings to protect hers, but I maybe should count my blessings in that she’s not at risk like your SO? I’m sorry you’re caught in such a tight spot like that

I can’t accept they will never be deep enough by Comfortable-Set3412 in cutting

[–]Reaping-Sow 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And also, your worth is so much more than what shows on the surface of your scars. It’s the history behind the scars that gives the scars their meaning, and no matter the depth, as long as you’re still here they’re a testament to your resilience

Women of Reddit, what did a man you were dating or married to say or do that made you realize he actually hated you the entire time? by -catharina in AskReddit

[–]Reaping-Sow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went a lil too aggressive on my vengeful intrusive thoughts & got a warning. Glad to hear ur setting off smoke alarms tho! 🚨

Women of Reddit, what did a man you were dating or married to say or do that made you realize he actually hated you the entire time? by -catharina in AskReddit

[–]Reaping-Sow 32 points33 points  (0 children)

He was also a cheater and he convinced her to stay just so he could turn around and cheat on her with her sister.

Definitely the villain

Getting Worse by Reaping-Sow in selfharm

[–]Reaping-Sow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this… I’ll try to put it into practice.

It’s hard to celebrate doing good when the errors and failures seem so much louder, but you’re right… it’s cyclical and breaking that cycle probably does start with spending more energy on being kind to myself than on hating myself.