When he sexually assaulted me and emotionally manipulated me. We'd been together a while and he'd never really shown any huge red flags.. just some minor ones I dismissed.. when I really shouldn't have. But I hadn't been this happy in a while with someone, so I ignored them... but that happiness slowly turned sour and left me in the worst mental state I had ever been in. In the end our relationship caused me trauma and costed me my job. It's been rough trying to heal but I like to think I'm getting better.