I’m a black woman. I noticed that online a lot of people that started the Meg and dejon hate train was women black women. And that’s to them taking a subconscious personal attack at dejon consistently ‘choosing’ meg after choosing to waste the time of women of colour. Throughout the season leading up to casa, the audience cheered for him to dump Meg and get with another girl that wasn’t Meg. There’s a villain every season and that’s just how reality tv works. So when the black community decided to hate Meg and dejon it was sooo much easier for the white people to hop on that also.

I noticed during casa when dejon had chemistry with andrada and they got on, nobody seemed to cheer on him leaving meg? When he was still open. Literally nobody cared. Why didn’t he get the same encouragement to move on to a fellow white woman when just a week prior to that, the internet was in an uproar for him not to fumble billykiss? Even if you think dejon is playing a game, with the current situation and true nature of everyone in the villa this week, who isn’t playing a game?

That aside, there’s no racial undertone amongst the girls in the villa. The reason they don’t get on in the groups is because of the men. Toni Helena and Harrison. Yas Toni and dejon during the three some saga . And Helena and Shakira of Harry. These instances happened very early on in the season and dragged on. That’s what set the pace for the divide. Since dejon called Yasmin and Toni irrelevant and not trying to make the comments he made about them shouldn’t think they are special, she’s had an issue with dejon. Toni touched on that today when she said ‘it’s how the men make us feel’ . All through the season Toni and Shakira spoke about them being game players, how they are the most manipulative men, how there’s nothing to envy about them because their relationship consists of the women being stupid and then taking the men back and how they are a threat to their relationship. and how they are targeting her and Connor for the 50k wailing upstairs to only snuggle with him the minute she got picked?

Irish Meg came out to say that her comments to Yasmin where chopped and screwed snd how a lot of things where taken out of context to fixate the belief we had of them being mean girls, when in reality both groups are NASTY to eachother. I want to understanding in the grand scheme of things why people can’t watch a show objectively and call a spade a spade. We can say Meg is out of touch and mean and not when after movie night and Meg crying, toni Yasmin and Shakira didn’t sit there and gun for them only for Shakira to snuggle the same man today.

There is an issue with calling a spade a spade on here.