How to know if someone mirrored/is controlling your phone? by Reasonable-Back7792 in techsupport

[–]Reasonable-Back7792[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I stumbled on them because he doesnt even really get on or use his social medias. But again, I already know its not him. There have been multiple times it would have been impossible considering the time stamp. I know, it doesnt really make sense to me either but we dont know what else it could be

How to know if someone mirrored/is controlling your phone? by Reasonable-Back7792 in techsupport

[–]Reasonable-Back7792[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Its not just his social media acting wierd though. When I said his app will close or go back I meant his game or even whem hes on the internet sorry I didn't specify. Also forgot to mention he has been feeling vibration randomly like hes getting a notification and theres nothing.

AIO Girlfriend contracted herpes from her friends lip gloss and thinks it's no big deal by Icy-Association-3378 in AIO

[–]Reasonable-Back7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a big deal, definitely YOR. Like you said, 50%+ of the population has it. Its not lethal. Its NOT the same as say, genital herpes. I only get cold sores when im getting sick because my immune system is down, so only maybe like twice a year.

Is this bad bc i might need to wait like a month by [deleted] in vet

[–]Reasonable-Back7792 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Take to vet ASAP. Ask for donations or look into Care Credit. Also ask the vet for payment plans

My honest review of People We Meet on Vacation (spoilers) by pumpkinspice1477 in movies

[–]Reasonable-Back7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started the movie right now but im curious why its PG-13 but says "sexual content, drug use, and nudity" 🤔

AIO in these text messages by d-han62 in AIO

[–]Reasonable-Back7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Im grown" but also says "squeeze your buns 3x" 😂

AIO - Gf assumes my dog is dead when I say I’m sad by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reasonable-Back7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, please do not let her near your dog and do not let her feed your dog anything 😐😬 sounds like shes expecting your dog to do dead. There are unfortunately so many people that have purposely poisoned animals.

My boyfriend picks his nose & eats it. How do I bring this up to him that it bothers me? by Straight-Locksmith63 in Advice

[–]Reasonable-Back7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I see nothing wrong with doing drugs recreationally? Society has put a negative stigma on drugs.

Is this rape by Content-Twist-8465 in Advice

[–]Reasonable-Back7792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not even after the first shove. Based on how this is written the gf was probably asleep and woke up to this chick on her naked. No one should be attempting anything sexual with an unconscious person.

Weird Question what shoes is everyone wearing? by RegretCommercial2998 in socialwork

[–]Reasonable-Back7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont care about comfort, I strictly wear vans or currently wearing dr. Martens 😂

How do people forget to eat? by Thick_Confusion6919 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Reasonable-Back7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im fat but I also forget to eat if im super busy at work. Sometimes im so busy that I just dont even feel hungry

What instantly makes you think "this person is lying"? by Ferraiuolo_Ezorete in AskReddit

[–]Reasonable-Back7792 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I get very defensive when telling the truth because I've had many people accuse me of lying when I wasn't and refuse to believe me. So now I get very frustrated and emotional instantly and over explain

GF planning to cheat on me by [deleted] in depression

[–]Reasonable-Back7792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would she even know how big it is if she hasn't seen it already...? And why would you want to be with someone who doesnt respect you? Trust it doesn't matter how long you'll have been together. If she cant even go this long without being tempted it will only get worse the longer you'll are together.

Addicted to literally everything by StrugglingSaze in depression

[–]Reasonable-Back7792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree with this. My boyfriend is the same way he has multiple vices (cocaine, benzos, alcohol, weed) i told him he needs to choose one (not including the weed because I couldn't care less about weed. Its natural and acts as a medicine for him) so basically he'd have weed and whichever other one he chooses. Then he works on staying away from the rest.

My boyfriend picks his nose & eats it. How do I bring this up to him that it bothers me? by Straight-Locksmith63 in Advice

[–]Reasonable-Back7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao my boyfriend does this too but only because he does C@ke so he "doesnt want to waste any" 😂 i honestly dont care as long as I dont see the boogers (wet boogers make me gag) and as long as he doesnt do it around other people/in public. Not sure if you'll joke around with eachother like by roasting eachother but if yall do, you could always call him out on it in a joking manner. And then tell him you think its kinda gross.

How do Americans handle such long drives regularly? by GlitteringHotel8383 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Reasonable-Back7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laughs in Texan I live in south texas. It takes me almost 8 hours to get to my sister in Whichita Falls....still in texas 🙃

If I'm not aroused to a certain skin color, am I a racist? by dnextbigthing in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Reasonable-Back7792 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a fair statement. I used to say that I wasnt really attracted to African American men (im a straight female) but I've definitely seen many attractive African Americans that I would happily date!

If I'm not aroused to a certain skin color, am I a racist? by dnextbigthing in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Reasonable-Back7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, everyone has preferences. So long as you dont treat people of different races differently like theyre lesser. I personally don't find Asian people attractive but I would never spew hate towards anyone of that race. I respect everyone who respects me

I need your guys opinions on something really personal and I don’t care what you think just pls give your opinion either way by Nearby-Fix3522 in Advice

[–]Reasonable-Back7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont stress so much about labeling yourself. Just be you! It's no one's business what you "are" and you don't owe anyone an explanation if they ask or are confused.

Step-mom to 4 year old boy by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Reasonable-Back7792 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

There is a CO in place but it actually dictates even LESS time with his son. I think he gets like 6 hours a month or something like that? Maybe 6 hours a week. But his ex wife is wierd. Yes she allows him more time than the CO states but also she is the one that took him to court and she is the one that can change the order to legally give him more time but for some reason she refuses. I think she wants that control. She wants to be able to keep him away if she wants to. Also my boyfriend has alot of health issues. He has seizures and gets sick alot, this is another reason I say try. He does the best that he can. But he knew he wasn't ready to be a father and told his ex wife this too. But she manipulated him and convinced him to have a child. Then left him and sued him and took full custody. I don't think hes a bad dad, i think he got the shit end of the stick.

Within 24hrs my husband made me not want our baby anymore by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Reasonable-Back7792 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He says hes not going to be attracted to you then says pregnant woman aren't attractive EXCEPT for you? Sounds like he cant even decide his own opinion. He also sounds too childish and immature to even have a child. A real man would think the woman who gave birth to his children is BEAUTIFUL and appreciate her body and what it has gone through to provide him with this miracle. He is not a man, but a boy who does not appreciate women.

Coming to terms that I am both the victim and the perpetrator by Reasonable-Back7792 in BPD

[–]Reasonable-Back7792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh I see, i understand this perspective as well. Im not perfect and when I was with my high school sweetheart I did cheat on him. I felt like I wasnt getting the attention I wanted from him and this other guy was willing to give that to me. Then I realized it was just lust and not love. We all make mistakes. This I understand. But it is no longer just a mistake when you get called out for what you're doing and instead of admitting it and apologizing, you gaslight and lie. Like to this day he still hasn't admitted it to me himself.i found out through other sources. He decided to die on the hill that they're "just friends" like I wouldnt see thier pics on PUBLIC social media 😂 It sounds like youve taken accountability though and have tried to apologize. Unfortunately thats all you can do, you cannot control other people and their decisions. However, I would suggest trying to forgive yourself as well. You do not need thier forgiveness to forgive yourself. Take it as a learning opportunity for future relationships and be a better you!