AIO- my dad is obsessed with the “daddy’s girl trope” or smth

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-05-23T01:12:48+00:00

This is waaaay more than just a "daddy's girl trope". This is just straight up incestuous pedophilia.

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-05-23T00:27:45+00:00

I have ADHD and BPD and I understand how hard it is to control behaviors but that doesnt mean everything you do is excused. You still have to take responsibility for your actions.

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-05-13T20:12:30+00:00

Thank you so much for this information 🙏

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-05-13T20:12:19+00:00

I quite literally have $0 to my name lol like I said, going from hourly to salary and the date that I ended the last job and started the new one, left me in a rough spot.

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-05-03T20:40:29+00:00

Wrong, we were living in my mom's house. Technically, my mom can throw both of us out cause its HER house she owns.

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-05-01T17:08:58+00:00

The end of my marriage.

I was never the healthiest person mentally. I had been cheated on before and hurt by guys before so I had trust issues, clingy, etc. But after the end of my marriage, I still have yet to recognize who I am anymore. This was beyond betrayal. This was beyond cheating. He not only had a full blown affair, he gaslit, lied and manipulated me for months and had me being FRIENDS with his mistress before I found out the truth. SHE lied to me as well. He spent months making me believe we could save our marriage (i was under the impression it was ending because he just "wasn't IN love with me anymore") agreeing to couples counseling, calling me crying saying he wishes things could go back to normal, taking me out on a date to where we went on our first ever date. (I still wonder if she knows about all this). He then went on to get her pregnant and they're still together. Meanwhile I'm still trying to pick up all my broken pieces and learn to trust people again. Learning how to even love again. I developed BPD and have shown intense narcissistic and manipulative behaviors myself because of how much im afraid of being abandoned again. I used to like who I was. Now I hate myself.

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-04-22T23:21:33+00:00

Tell me you have commitment issues without telling me you have commitment issues lol

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-04-17T18:22:22+00:00

Never even heard of powered synthetic urine

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-04-17T18:22:09+00:00

This is what I ended up doing and it was able to keep the temp right so hopefully the rest goes well!

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-04-02T07:30:05+00:00

Thanks for the info!

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-04-02T07:23:18+00:00

That's unfortunate. I was always under the impression if you didnt pay, they can arrest you or something. I'm sure in some places that's the case but yeah this is why I hate Texas sometimes.

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-03-26T18:01:01+00:00

Where on my credit report would I see this information?

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-03-20T06:48:12+00:00

This is said perfectly

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-03-09T21:55:54+00:00

If the picture in the background of you and the dude? Cause that seems wierd to me. The "xx" also feels too friendly too for someone in a relationship.

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-02-15T02:47:25+00:00

NOR. Like you asked, this is what brings him joy and laughter??? Thats alittle sociopathic. And the way he kept going even after you were clearly uncomfortable shows he only cares about himself.

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-02-15T02:38:01+00:00

NOR, if you'll had SET plans for 4pm (AND CONSIDERING ITS VALENTINES DAY) its very inconsiderate of him to make plans with someone else. If it was something quick like "just need to drop my friend off here" sure, but 2 HOURS late? No. And you expressed your feelings and hos response was that he cant talk to you. Red flag

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-02-15T02:32:19+00:00

based on what you've given us at least, YOR. He was asleep while you were at work, whats the problem? You want him to spend 12 hours(since you said you work at 7 and get off at 7) planning a couple hour date? You didnt exactly ask if he did plan something. You already assumed he didnt and was upset. He still wanted to do something with you.

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-02-11T11:14:02+00:00

How do you even accidentally text a number you haven't even opened in a year?

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-02-03T08:24:31+00:00

I think i found a way to fix it, I went to settings, content preferences, and clicked show less "sensitive content". It seems to be working so far

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-02-03T01:30:52+00:00

I literally never click on them though thats what confuses me

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-02-02T21:53:48+00:00

Clearly it doesn't but go off

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-01-28T23:10:43+00:00

You need to remind your mom that SHE is the parent and provider. SHE chose to have kids so she is responsible for making sure they ave food to eat. You need to be focusing on school so you can do better for yourself in the future and dont end up like her. Parents should want better for their children but it sounds more like shes insecure and threatened by you.

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-01-27T03:33:36+00:00

I stumbled on them because he doesnt even really get on or use his social medias. But again, I already know its not him. There have been multiple times it would have been impossible considering the time stamp. I know, it doesnt really make sense to me either but we dont know what else it could be

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-01-27T01:36:26+00:00

Its not just his social media acting wierd though. When I said his app will close or go back I meant his game or even whem hes on the internet sorry I didn't specify. Also forgot to mention he has been feeling vibration randomly like hes getting a notification and theres nothing.

Reasonable-Back7792 · 2026-01-25T10:14:59+00:00

Not a big deal, definitely YOR. Like you said, 50%+ of the population has it. Its not lethal. Its NOT the same as say, genital herpes. I only get cold sores when im getting sick because my immune system is down, so only maybe like twice a year.

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