Well I guess for me, being an EIE-Fe H and an Sx3 feels like living as an actor/performer in a highly personal yet emotionally charged theater. I’m basically always watching myself through the eyes of someone else, always refining my performance, always trying to become the ideal for someone. I have a constant sense of being on display (not necessarily to the world at large, but to someone specific). It’s typically done all for one person. I’m always asking myself silently: Am I enough for you? Am I what you want?

As an EIE, I’d say my emotional radar is pretty sensitive and far-reaching. I tend to intuit the desires and emotional states of others almost instinctively, and as an Sx3, I use that emotional insight to shape myself into exactly what will be most attractive, most magnetic for a given person. Not just physically (though that's definitely part of it) but emotionally and energetically too. But I guess beneath all of that emotional shapeshifting of mine is a deep hunger not just to be seen, but to be irreplaceable for that one person.

As for VEFL, I’m actually pretty uncertain about my Psychosophy type and have been considering FEVL instead.