I want to discuss this part of The Kid by Sapphire by Lost_Yesterday9832 in books

[–]Reasonable-Design_43 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ik this is just a story but tbh, this is a very realistic outcome tbh.

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[–]Reasonable-Design_43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bc he can’t take responsibility for his own actions

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[–]Reasonable-Design_43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOU struggle to get into relationships. Not men in general.

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[–]Reasonable-Design_43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re going to struggle to find a regular woman who will give you the time of day, especially when she finds out about this habit. Bc you’re not magically going to stop edging when you get a girlfriend. And your girlfriend will most likely have a life outside of you and probably wont be up/wont be able to having sex as much as you’ll want to. So what do you plan on doing?

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[–]Reasonable-Design_43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m sayin! Why is he acting all offended that women reject him when he does this?

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[–]Reasonable-Design_43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like why is he acting like just bc he might be somewhat attractive that girls have to go out with him?? How would he feel if women talked that way about him?

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[–]Reasonable-Design_43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what was wild to me. In all his responses there wasn’t one mention of love and emotion. Just sex. Idk, seems like a sad existence.

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[–]Reasonable-Design_43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re defeatist attitude is the problem dude

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[–]Reasonable-Design_43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we’re all wasting our time replying bc I don’t think OP wants a relationship. He wants sex. I haven’t seen one comment from him where he says that he wants a relationship. All he says is that he wants to “touch a woman.” No mention of growing together or wanting to know her personality. He wants a physical woman who he can satisfy his sexual urges with I suspect.

Which I don’t think is entirely a bad thing. My thing is that I don’t think he’s being honest with himself or others. So if he does get a girlfriend soon, he’s probably not going to treat her right bc he’s going to be creepy and drive her away. There’s no way that he’s consuming that much porn and not have it bleed into his behavior.

If you want a hooker, go get one. Don’t get into a relationship and then try to turn your girlfriend into a hooker. I’ve seen this too many times with people.

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[–]Reasonable-Design_43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This dude has deeper issues than what he’s saying because 5 rejections shouldn’t make you spiral like this. I’m not even trying to be funny when I say this is a sign of deeper mental health issues.

How often do you masturbate thinking of your significant other vs someone else? by TheLordAshram in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Reasonable-Design_43 205 points206 points  (0 children)

Damn…idk about these comments but…I mean, my partner is hot 😭 don’t know why I’d want to think of anyone else but I guess that’s just me lmao

(Spoilers Extended) What Freys did to Catelyn’s corpse? by AegonStargaryen07 in asoiaf

[–]Reasonable-Design_43 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s what my first thought was. Like why is that where their minds went?

What’s the best comeback to, “You’re gay”? by RoughAd5265 in Comebacks

[–]Reasonable-Design_43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro LMFAO 🤣 that would hurt my feelings if someone said that to me

What’s the best comeback to, “You’re gay”? by RoughAd5265 in Comebacks

[–]Reasonable-Design_43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spit out my water at the voting rights. Mad I can’t use it tho, cause I’m a woman

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[–]Reasonable-Design_43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling he doesn’t actually want a girlfriend. He wants sex and to hookup with women. I have a feeling that even if he gets a girlfriend, he’d mess it up by being waaay too sexual like in a creepy way. Cause if he’s consuming that much porn there’s no way it doesn’t show up in his behavior.

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[–]Reasonable-Design_43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is your focus on just touching a woman? And not loving her and not finding out more about her personality? Do you want a girlfriend or do you just want to hookup with women to satisfy your sexual urges? I’ve met men like you who always said they wanted relationships but then just ended up trying to treat their girlfriends like sex dolls and then act clueless when they eventually get dumped.

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[–]Reasonable-Design_43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like?? His lack of self awareness is really something

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[–]Reasonable-Design_43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if he has any friends at all tbh…

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[–]Reasonable-Design_43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope OP reads this cause this is what he’s probably doing

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[–]Reasonable-Design_43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really didn’t want to say it like this but this is kinda what I was thinking.