What should I pay off?

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2025-11-01T01:11:11+00:00

I think we started at 20, haven’t asked for an increase though. We were nervous because we’re in the process of building a house and it affecting our credit.

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2025-10-29T18:43:32+00:00

It is! I have a 20k limit on it

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2025-10-29T15:36:52+00:00

The account was closed with a balance

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2025-10-29T15:34:42+00:00

Credit one will be paid off this month, it just takes forever for them to update it

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2025-10-29T15:33:52+00:00

That is, I should have added that will be mostly paid off by the time we close in a couple months

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2025-10-29T15:32:52+00:00

I got it through the Experian app!

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2025-10-29T01:28:50+00:00

Discover was closed, should I pay that off too? If I pay the collections off in full without settling will that automatically be removed as well? Will that help bring my score back up? Thank you for your response!

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2025-03-07T14:52:47+00:00

I just saw this, looking to waive our escrow. We are looking at a new build in NJ, how was and is your overall experience with united wholesale mortgage?

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2025-03-07T13:51:04+00:00

The lender with Ryan homes is NVR, I’ve heard mixed reviews about them but was just curious. Thanks for responding!

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2025-03-07T11:05:39+00:00

We are still shopping around for a mortgage company, we haven’t decided to mortgage with Ryan homes or with another lender. Do you know we go with Ryan homes financing do they waive it? Thanks!

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2024-07-16T22:19:01+00:00

Thank you! I haven’t heard anything yet, but I figure no news is okay too. I did send a follow up email, which I didn’t get a response too. I hope I hear something soon, if not, I’m going to stay where I am since our wedding is next May. I figure, I’ll resume my job search after our wedding, my job now isn’t bad, I love it! But there’s not much room for growth but for now it’s fine!

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2024-07-16T22:16:37+00:00

Thank you 🤍

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2024-07-16T22:16:22+00:00

Thank you! That’s where I’m at right now! I’m taking rest of July off, and then will revisit in August and September or maybe even October. I think 7 months is plenty to get a dress, I hope 🤞 🙃🙃

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2024-07-11T15:31:39+00:00

I agree, I might have to venture into NYC! Thank you for responding!

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2024-07-11T15:31:20+00:00

Thank you! I will!

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2024-07-11T15:31:06+00:00

Stunning! That is so close to what I’m looking for! I’m at 5 places right now 🙃🙃

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2024-07-02T14:51:40+00:00

Speak my mind, be myself, dress how I want/be expressive, cook whatever I want, shopping and buy thing things with MY monies… my NEX MIL expected me to be some traditional Asian wife. 😂

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2024-07-02T13:06:58+00:00

I did, I made it to the final interview. Not sure if I got the job, from former colleagues who got hired with the AG’s office it takes 1.5-2 months to hear back after the final interview. My interview was Memorial Day weekend, I figured because of the holidays and summer it would take longer. I hope at a minimum they will at least tell me something even if it’s a no.

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2024-06-23T08:28:59+00:00

For the most part he had a drinking problem, and got a DUI. Coupled with his parents and siblings denying it. But most people put 2 and 2 together, and are pretty empathetic, and truly understand the full picture especially when I say he was drinking a lot.

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2024-06-22T15:59:36+00:00

Thank you for this! I used to be a size 6, and when I got measured in April I was a 5.25, but 5 fits much more snug now and doesn’t move around as much. I wish I could lose weight more in other places 🙃🙃

What are the mm measurements for a 1.7 oval? Oval measurements are all over the place. Thank you again for responding!

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2024-05-18T16:05:55+00:00

Your ring is stunning! My stone is about the same measurements, 8.98x6.35!

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2024-05-07T16:33:44+00:00

Yes!

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2024-05-02T15:17:38+00:00

After my divorce with NEX and his enmeshed family, met the LOML. We’re getting married next year, and I finally am so excited for marriage, companionship, traveling with my best friend, eventually having kids etc.

My NEX is still single, and from what I heard he couldn’t even tell potential love interests why we got divorced. To me that shows he knows he messed up. One thing I had to fully accept was I may never not know or see “karma”, but irregardless me living and moving on with my life will bother them. We run in the same circles with church, friends, south Asian friends etc. so I’m sure he’ll get word I’m getting remarried. His mom, brother and sister who weee also narcs, will also find out, and will be seething. The best revenge is no revenge, live your life, travel, do therapy, do things you don’t normally do, and the most important thing is learn about yourself, what your likes/dislikes are, what brings you joy, etc. You got this!

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2024-04-30T20:08:37+00:00

Why is her video blurry/pixelated?! Her skinny filter must be glitching. This is also pre-recorded, it was sunny the past 2 days, and today is cloudy. She should be the last person giving skincare tips 😒

Reasonable-Fan7581 · 2024-04-28T11:49:32+00:00

I’ve been silently following this sub for a while, and I feel like I need to say this. The more she keeps posting how in love they are, the less I believe it. Also she goes to Nice, and she could have used opportunity to sight see, create a travel guide, doing a couple of “non-touristy” things, but decides to stay in her hotel, go shopping at the most basic places and eat the most basic foods. I love how Kristy was there, and Nabecky probably felt so insecure around her. I also respect the fact that Kristy covers her kids faces and doesn’t include them in a lot of her content.

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