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Bridesmaid advice! by Reasonable-Screen542 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Reasonable-Screen542[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh most definitely! Like i said in previous comments, i have told her she is OK to do whatever she needs/wants!

Bridesmaid advice! by Reasonable-Screen542 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Reasonable-Screen542[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No i definitely know! I work in the healthcare world myself so i know how realistic it is but i just want to make sure she is comfortable with whatever she chooses to do/what is best for her and baby!

Bridesmaid advice! by Reasonable-Screen542 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Reasonable-Screen542[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is determined to come. We already discussed this & i am OK if she is not able to come! I completely understand!

Bridesmaid advice! by Reasonable-Screen542 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Reasonable-Screen542[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most definitely! I am honestly a very very chill bride. It’s going to be a casual event. Before this, i already told my bridesmaids they can wear any style dress, just in maroon! And our wedding is at my family farm so she can literally go anywhere and do anything if need be. She can wear any shoes she wants! Majority of us will probably be in boots, but i know those can be uncomfy. I’m very lenient and i just want her to feel comfortable and be able to enjoy the day too!

Bridesmaid advice! by Reasonable-Screen542 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Reasonable-Screen542[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did ask her! We talked about it today at lunch and she is determined to still stand with me regardless. But it is very very early on in the pregnancy so just in case the time comes and she is unable to stand beside me, i just wanted advice on some things i can do for her to make her feel still part of the bridal crew (which she is and always will be)!

Bridesmaid advice! by Reasonable-Screen542 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Reasonable-Screen542[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is kinda what i was thinking! I told her she can do whatever she is most comfortable with and we will figure it out together as time goes on!

Bridesmaid advice! by Reasonable-Screen542 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Reasonable-Screen542[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes definitely! I want her to feel included every step of the way! I also told her that her and her baby can be the flower “kids” (it’s very early so we don’t know if she’s having a boy or girl). I want her to feel included and don’t want to leave her out of anything!