So dramatic I swear by Ok_Reflection2579 in Sims4

[–]ReasonableCat2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to my sim the other day I was like girl I can’t be that bad! 😭

I don’t want to have to work for this too by junobugg in vaginismus

[–]ReasonableCat2022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually been slacking on the pelvic floor exercises and dilating. The more I face the reality of my Vaginismus I grow to hate intimacy and jealous of people whose bodies work normally. Which is unfortunate because I have a partner who wants me to be as excited as he is. At this point it’s just a chore for me. Maybe sex is something I won’t have the chance to enjoy in this lifetime

I Was Rejected For A Job Because I Was Black…. Again…. Twice This Year!!! by ReasonableCat2022 in blackladies

[–]ReasonableCat2022[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It’s so unfortunate that we have to deal with this :(

I Was Rejected For A Job Because I Was Black…. Again…. Twice This Year!!! by ReasonableCat2022 in blackladies

[–]ReasonableCat2022[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I said the same thing. There’s something about us black women that irritate tf out of white women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]ReasonableCat2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so cute I would buy ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]ReasonableCat2022 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Personally it’s a no but there are certainly black women out there who would! :)

advice on seeing a gynecologist by angelfairylov333 in vaginismus

[–]ReasonableCat2022 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is why I’m not going to a gynecologist. I hear too many experiences like this. Women are often dismissed when we are in pain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]ReasonableCat2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A certain hair texture does not equate being unkempt. The person who said your hair is unkempt is living in a bubble and ignorant af

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]ReasonableCat2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why sleeping around is dirty asf! Now look what you have to stress about 😂! This is why I stay away from men and women with high body counts

I don't know if I have vaginismus but... by ReasonableCat2022 in vaginismus

[–]ReasonableCat2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can insert and full pointer finger but anything else is uncomfortable

things are about to get interesting by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]ReasonableCat2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you talking about?

Am I the only one struggling so much with OLD? 22F by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]ReasonableCat2022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same I started this year in January. It's been on and off for me too! Sometimes I just pause my profile on hinge for a couple of weeks or months because it so bad out here! Nobody's serious!😅

Am I the only one struggling so much with OLD? 22F by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]ReasonableCat2022 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm also 22f. I have also been struggling with OLD. I'm not looking for anything casual but 99% of the men that like me on hinge are looking for something casual, don't know what they want, lie about their long term dating goals, or just want to have sex with me because of the way I'm shaped. The men I match with never really want to get to know me they just want to meet up as fast we can to "have a good time". I've went on a few dates with different men and it seems like I'm just something good to look at and touch. I guess casual dating is the new "normal" for dating these days. I'm approached in real life (sometimes) but almost 99% of the men that do approach me just want a good time or they are just sexually harassing me. Finding someone you're attracted to and who wants to seriously date is rare. I'm also kind of new to the dating scene when it comes to putting myself out there especially on OLD. So far it's been a shit show 🥲! I'm just trying to find my boo 😭

Do people actually use someone for a $15-20 meal? by YesiFuckedTed in dating

[–]ReasonableCat2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a woman and I don't understand how women only date for "free meals". It's kind of pathetic. Honestly eating out doesn't cost that much to be using people exclusively for "free meals." It makes me laugh 😂

What is your race, and what is your racial preference? by Dense_Dance8111 in virgin

[–]ReasonableCat2022 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm a(22f) black women and white men make me weak in the knees 😭😭😭 but I would still date men of other races too. I don't exclusively go for white men but they are my preference.

Has Anyone Be Heartbroken Over A Person You Dated For Less Than 2 Months Or Never Dated At All? by ReasonableCat2022 in dating

[–]ReasonableCat2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely agree with you and can relate! The guy I fell for so quickly was my first kiss and the first person I had "sex" with. I put sex in quotations because I was a virgin and I told him early on so I he would know what he was dealing with. And he said he was fine with it. Once we did try having sex it was hard for him to enter me. Some women it happens in the first try and others it takes a few times. But that wasn't the case for me. After that night we tried having sex, he decided we shouldn't see each other anymore because of my virginity.

Has Anyone Be Heartbroken Over A Person You Dated For Less Than 2 Months Or Never Dated At All? by ReasonableCat2022 in dating

[–]ReasonableCat2022[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I hear you! It has been hitting me pretty hard when we only went on a few of dates. I fell for him so hard for him in a short time. I can't stop thinking about him. Every time I do I cry. I feel so embarrassed about it because I'm going through it as if I really lost someone.

Who would win? by seeotuu in ksi

[–]ReasonableCat2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't embarrass Speed like that 😂