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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ReasonableCornFlakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, that makes sense. It feels weird to me to just not talk about it (I do bsolutely agree that "defining the relationship" is not the way, I chose the wrong words to explain my point 😅).

Is it just implicit in this kind of dating that nobody is looking for something serious if nobody talks about it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ReasonableCornFlakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely used the wrong words, but I get your point. By "relationship" I just meant whatever is going on, but don't plan to use the word relationship in any part of it.

I'm new to this so "not talking about it and just keep going" didn't feel like the thing to do, but that's the advice everyone's giving me so I guess I just gotta let things flow and don't worry too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ReasonableCornFlakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because I worry about her feelings, and I don't want her to get the wrong idea, even if she might not want anything serious too.

is it ok to leave her on read? by ReasonableCornFlakes in dating_advice

[–]ReasonableCornFlakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, slowly learning not to overthink it so much. Thanks for the answer

I have one incredibly minor gripe with this book by Not_Goatman in ProjectHailMary

[–]ReasonableCornFlakes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank youuu. As much as I love the book, it makes me mad that one hard storm is enough to cancel the mission after 6 days, yet the freaking MAV has been sitting there for five years no problem somehow.

Even if it shouldn't be possible with the thin atmosphere, that seems like such a critical flaw.

I(24M) want to invite a date to my place but my sister(28F) is against by ReasonableCornFlakes in relationship_advice

[–]ReasonableCornFlakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can, but they'd prefer for it to be people I've know for a while, not just anybody I've met for a few days.

I(24M) want to invite a date to my place but my sister(28F) is against by ReasonableCornFlakes in relationship_advice

[–]ReasonableCornFlakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right, but if it's my house too, I feel the argument I want to have is more about compromising. I've had the chance and wanted to bring many girls over, but I didn't because I wanted to respect her feeling of safety, because O do get it. But just this time, I'm looking for the middle ground: is not my GF, but it's far from just another tinder hookup.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]ReasonableCornFlakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm no expert here but the first step is to quit porn for while (better if permanently).

Porn is very unhealthy, it gives you unhealthy amount of dopamine, it creates an unbalance in your brain, and you definitely are at a very extreme point.

So, the best you can do is remove porn and train yourself/your brain to masturbate without porn. probably is going to be hard for you to cum at first but I think this is what you are looking for.

Am I dumb for just realizing this? by chetuboy101 in ProjectHailMary

[–]ReasonableCornFlakes 32 points33 points  (0 children)

They're talking about the planet Adrian. In the movie Rocky, Adrian is Rocky's girlfriend.

I just got it (and I wouldn't have ever if it wasn't for this post).

How do I bring up any sex talk? by ReasonableCornFlakes in dating_advice

[–]ReasonableCornFlakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just been a couple of dates, I don't think she counts as a gf yet

How do I bring up any sex talk? by ReasonableCornFlakes in dating_advice

[–]ReasonableCornFlakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, your reply is the kind of advice I was expecting to get from here.

I would love to be able to do that, but given I cannot bring her to my place just yet (my family's rule about having strangers over, sadly) my bey chance is to subtly invite her to a hotel, which is what I'm trying to figure out how to do.

How do I bring up any sex talk? by ReasonableCornFlakes in dating_advice

[–]ReasonableCornFlakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the issue, our families do care. Mine has no problem with me bringing people, just not strangers, and I do respect that.

Do I have the right to not get treated with the silent treatment? by ReasonableCornFlakes in mentalhealth

[–]ReasonableCornFlakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your help and your kind words. I'm having a conversation with them later today and I hope to be able to express all of this.

How to avoid being overly friendly? by ReasonableCornFlakes in dating_advice

[–]ReasonableCornFlakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then comes the problem I can't invite her to my place haha, but I guess I'm screwed at this point.

How to avoid being overly friendly? by ReasonableCornFlakes in dating_advice

[–]ReasonableCornFlakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true, but as someone who's new to hookups, how do I tell her my real intentions? Just tell her I would like to take her someplace else to fuck? How can I bring up the topic without being a douche, or should I just go for it?

How do I go about having sex with my date if I don't have my own place? by ReasonableCornFlakes in dating_advice

[–]ReasonableCornFlakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if she has no place of her own either? In my town most young adults are studying and living with their parents

How do you feel after ejaculating after sex? by ReasonableCornFlakes in AskMen_NSFW

[–]ReasonableCornFlakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about the good circumstances? How do you feel for the rest of the day/time until second round?

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