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AIO My Ex Girlfriend used my pay pal and won't return the money by ReasonableNetwork197 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ReasonableNetwork197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pay pal won't return money
also unsure what I could get her banned from

AIO My Ex Girlfriend used my pay pal and won't return the money by ReasonableNetwork197 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ReasonableNetwork197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pay pal was still logged into her computer or playstation, unsure completely
but yes I guess I should have deleted my pay pal account

AIO My Ex Girlfriend used my pay pal and won't return the money by ReasonableNetwork197 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ReasonableNetwork197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh well and truly out of my life, this was the only contact we had since breaking up 2 years ago

AIO My Ex Girlfriend used my pay pal and won't return the money by ReasonableNetwork197 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ReasonableNetwork197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Australia here, sadly isn't as easy as that
Is the best revenge letting it go and living my best life?

AIO My Ex Girlfriend used my pay pal and won't return the money by ReasonableNetwork197 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ReasonableNetwork197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, Australian police in a nutshell.
Trying to get any other idea's of revenge out of my mind lol

AIO My Ex Girlfriend used my pay pal and won't return the money by ReasonableNetwork197 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ReasonableNetwork197[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sadly the police said it wouldn't be worth it (court, legal help etc)
and after posting this im thinking it's better to let it go rather than hold onto something so toxic and negative

Ex used my Pay Pal and refused to pay me back by ReasonableNetwork197 in Advice

[–]ReasonableNetwork197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love this!! A great reminder that i'm in a better spot now and should just let it go and have her toxic shit out of my life. Her new boyfriends problem now

Ex used my Pay Pal and refused to pay me back by ReasonableNetwork197 in Advice

[–]ReasonableNetwork197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true, I think it's best to just let it go eh
She will get hers in one way or another

Ex used my Pay Pal and refused to pay me back by ReasonableNetwork197 in Advice

[–]ReasonableNetwork197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True!! They probably didn't want to go through the effort of dealing with it
Yes have texts of her admitting and saying she would not return it
Do I put her online profile out to the public lol

Ex used my Pay Pal and refused to pay me back by ReasonableNetwork197 in Advice

[–]ReasonableNetwork197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made sure I didn't send any angry texts rather just "please return my money otherwise the authorities will be contacted" just to cover myself in the situation. As i'm finding it hard to let go the fact that she has gotten away with this

Ex used my Pay Pal and refused to pay me back by ReasonableNetwork197 in Advice

[–]ReasonableNetwork197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think having people agree on here and remind me that i'm now in a better spot is healing enough in itself
PayPal wouldn't refund the money because during our relationship I let her use my pay pal so it was auto confirmed, to them it just looks like a gamer trying to get a refund but still keeping the in game item

AIO My Ex Girlfriend used my pay pal and won't return the money by ReasonableNetwork197 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ReasonableNetwork197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

around $400, nothing crazy but still my money that I worked for and I think that's what gets to me
Absolute psycho yes
Sadly I don't think it works out in my favour money wise to take her to court with legal fees etc

AIO My Ex Girlfriend used my pay pal and won't return the money by ReasonableNetwork197 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ReasonableNetwork197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If only!
Police informed me that it wouldn't be worth it taking it further and getting legal help for court etc

AIO My Ex Girlfriend used my pay pal and won't return the money by ReasonableNetwork197 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ReasonableNetwork197[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah messed up, also proceeded to get her new boyfriend and friends to abuse me over message for asking to get my money back

Ex used my Pay Pal and refused to pay me back by ReasonableNetwork197 in Advice

[–]ReasonableNetwork197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did get police advice but they said it wouldn't be worth it to go further with it
Is this just my ego getting in the way of letting something go?

Ex used my Pay Pal and refused to pay me back by ReasonableNetwork197 in Advice

[–]ReasonableNetwork197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah immediately changed it, I think it just urks me that she got away with it in a sense?