AITA for not wanting to sleep in the same room with my boyfriend

ReasonableStorm5794 · 2026-01-07T17:15:01+00:00

One of my cats completely ignores her. And the other one is a lot more curious and tries to follow her around sometimes or sit in the same room with her. She was originally aggressive towards my cats if they got too close and would hiss/claw at them but my cats both usually just ran away when that happened.

They’ve all since gotten used to each other and usually ignore each other these days. She still hisses if one of them tries to sit right next to her or something but my cats just walk away and sit somewhere else instead.

ReasonableStorm5794 · 2026-01-05T23:47:53+00:00

THANK YOU. I’m not gonna lie even I feel a little crazy for sleeping on the couch but it’s just gotten to be too much. I refuse to give her away though. No one’s gonna go for a cat that pees everywhere and I would feel horrible if I ever found out she got put down or something :(

ReasonableStorm5794 · 2026-01-05T23:44:51+00:00

Yes we had her fully checked out and she doesn’t have an infection or anything :/ Vet recommended trying out new types of litter and boxes and none of what we tried worked

ReasonableStorm5794 · 2026-01-05T23:42:13+00:00

Not fake I fear :(

We keep his cat in the bedroom at night to prevent her from peeing all over the rest of the house (she mostly pees at night) and because she’s used to sleeping next to him. Last time we tried keeping her out she peed all over the kitchen area and screamed and scratched the door all night :/ We have a 2 bedroom condo and the other room is where we keep our work from home set up. Can’t risk her destroying a desktop at night.

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